Mistresses and Misers

[Nilu]

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Hm... my husband dont buy gifts to me but everything what i want he give it to me and i mean everything what is possible to buy LOL

[Zalim_Wadera]

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@hiccup

Its not the money, its a way they choose to evaluate howmuch they mean to their other half. Obviously they are materialistic and assume that the mor expensive the gift the more they mean. Nome saying?

I hate recievng gifts. But here is an example of a perfect gift.

A dozen of your favourite flowers delivered to your doorsetep on the day of your birthday, which even you forgot. Favourite flowers that you had mentioned several months back.

Little gifts brought at airports and stalls when on holiday.

Little things that you mentioned ages back, like a sari or a card or a letter.

It is not the price tag. But then if those guys are dating girls who are so materialistic, obviously they like them that way, so more power to them both.

Gift giving is not a requirement, its a way of showing that you care about the person, we all like recieve gifts - its a way of putting a smile on the persons face.

Girls dont grow up.

[Shikra]

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@suroor_ca02

PCG.. why dont u marry both lussi and shikra

shikra: “friends with benefits”

Mein tou tayyar hoon, PCG hi nahi maanti

And friends with benefit was supposed to be a joke but our dear PCG is very sensitive and took it seriously

[Sara516]

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WTH>> What about me? I thot I was the only one

[PyariCgudia]

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oh please.

We all know you mack it up.

[Devoted2Allah]

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@Shikra

Like I said, it’s my personal opinion. But Prophet (PBUH) didn’t give fazool gifts. Maybe on Eid etc. yeah, but not for any other odd reasons that todays girls are just adding on to the list. I am sure you know how desis are. Don’t they compare the prices etc. of gifts that someone gave them 2 years ago? Hmmmmm…mein uskey ghar gayi tou meney ussey 20 dollar ka gift diya, woh merey ghar aayi tou uss ney mujhe 15 dollars ka gift diya!!! This causes the distances in the relationship in today’s world, rather than bringing people close. People now a days don’t realize it’s the thought that counts, not the price tag on the gift :halo:

My $.02

Lussi bhai Let’s start a tehreek

gift giving is excellent, as the prophet Allah bless him and give him peace said that exchanging of gifts increases the love.

[Devoted2Allah]

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@PyariCgudia

Oh and especially if this female is your wife, I really do think its necessary to give gifts. She cleans for you, she bears kids for you, she raises kids for you, she cooks for you your every meal, she looks after you when you’re sick.

So yeah, I think a little gift here and there as a token of love and appreciation can really make a relationship flower.

yes i agree with you, its vital to keep an air of romance in marriage.