I can understand everything but not caring for your own kids....no
not only does he not care about his kids but he is a liar, a cheat, an adulterer and a fraud
why...? well for one thing he took vows to keep his intimacies in a sole relationship with his wife, for better or for worse, through high lust season to low drive season that kinda thing
oh... did I forget to mention such a man does not care about his wife either?