i have 2 sisters and a few months ago i found out that after my birth, my mum had a miscarriage and it was a boy. that made me wonder a bit what it wouldve been like to have a brother.
when i was a kid my cousin's mum had a baby boy, and i was so jealous lol, i asked my mum why i couldnt have a baby brother too lol. well 8 years later through a sad twist of fate that little baby boy came to live with me and my family, along with his older bro, and suddenly i had 2 brothers.so i kind of know what its like, but we're not as close as what i imagine a real brother to me would be.i dont know.
id like to have some nice khalas,chachas and mamus,cos mine are all horrific lol.and itd be nice to have a female cousin my age to be close to, i had one but she passed away.
ultimately, i kind of believe in you cant miss what you never had. and i dont focus much on what ifs, its better to concentrate on what you have and not be remorseful for what could have been.
Re: Missing relationships
I wish my nana abu was still alive and my other half's abu. They are both greatly needed by their loved ones.
May Allah subhanatallah bless them both with a place in Jaanah. Aameen.