I am Insha Allah getting married by the end of this month ! I have stopped talking with my fiance because I feel that we should excitement in our heart for each other on wedding day and also because we fight alot & usually on family issues esp when I am being told each and every thing as to what to do , what to say , what not to do and how I will be mistreated by his mother …I would not be wrong if I say we fight like kids and I dont want to have any fight with him now we have fought enuf on other ppl. We both have good understanding and love each other alot Masha Allah, he is a gem of a person and we have barely fought with each other on personal issues.
Now I am really missing him alot , although we have not been talking much with each other during past 2 months but I feel something missing in my life it’s so hurting and I have challenged him that i will not call him now until wedding day
Another thing is there is no contact , our families barely contact with each other in 2 weeks . His mother is always busy and it is always my mother who calls. We were the only ppl who were contacting each other daily now I dont have any news from him at all …I am feeling this too much but I also firmly believe not to talk with him b4 marriage.
i get married in a few weeks too and i suggested to my other half exactly the same thing, he sisnt quiet agree lol. So we continue to speak and talk. Dont worry it will all be worth it im sure. Don't listen to other people, speaking from experience, trust me when i say that casuses more strifethan its worth.. in my house it is the reverse, my parents hardly contact his, and its always his mum that calls us. i even take what my mum says with a pinch of salt as i sometimes think she is just not use to sharing her kids with other people and its difficult for her to accept i will be a part of another family very soon. just focus on each other. Also can i ask you mate, do you know of any good photographers/DJ?
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we fight alot & usually on family issues esp when I am being told each and every thing as to what to do , what to say , what not to do and *how I will be mistreated by his mother *...
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Wait - wait - who is telling you that your soon to be mother in law is going to mistreat you? Do you really believe that this is going to happen? Or is this the usual, "all mother in laws are evil" type of a perception?
Wow, he agreed not to talk. My fiancee, A big NO. I told him, not aksed him not to come to the airport b/c my wedding is going to be after 5 days. So, I dont want him to see me, but he's going to ask my parents if he can take me for the shopping/dinner.
I would too be married exactly one month from now (not exactly marriage, sy it ruksati, I am already nikaohified).. should i stop talking with him
Both our families are already in contact... but... I cant live talking without him... PLUS I need to tell him so many things.. and have to keep him REMINDING>.. the photographer, the timings to be there in the studio and all that!!!!! SHould I stop talking?
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