Husband is in Pakistan and I am in UK. I feel like i love him so much, so much that it hurts. I have loved before, but not like this. He is not with me, but i feel like i want to touch him, hold him, kiss him and smell him. I miss him so immensly.
I cannot sleep at night without imagining that he is with me.
Is it possible to love too much? Is it bad to love too much?
Here we go again. I expected this from you. Laughing at Islam. Shame on you. Loving my husband is not haram. Your 'jokes' are not amusing, please do not take Islam in vain. You should be ashamed of yourself by using Islamic principles to attack others using jokes and sarcasm. Its a major sin to use Islamic principles as a base for sarcasm. Of course, as previously expressed by yourself, you dont care about sins or committing them, or for Islam for that matter? Are you a Muslim? Probably not.
Husband is in Pakistan and I am in UK. I feel like i love him so much, so much that it hurts. I have loved before, but not like this. He is not with me, but i feel like i want to touch him, hold him, kiss him and smell him. I miss him so immensly.
I cannot sleep at night without imagining that he is with me.
Is it possible to love too much? Is it bad to love too much?
its not a joke
telling compleet strangers about what all you wish to do to your husband may be all fine, but civilized people keep this sort of talks of PDA a little private. From my understanding islam advocates decency and modesty, and to me someone talking in public about how she wants to kiss and hold her husband, smell him and what nots is a little bit on the other side of modesty.
where does one then draw the line? at what point about ppl talking about what is something private between a husband and wife become risque?
I suppose we have different standards of modesty :) That is okay.
Ohhhhh Im sorry. All I am doing is what the average Muslim does. I thought you wouldnt mind this, X2 because Muslims are not meant to 'judge' other Muslims or help other Muslims to correct themselves, right? I didnt think it was bad talking about my husband, because at the end of the day I am married to him and its not like I was vulgar. I mean Muslim girls in London who go out and do more vulgar things with their boyfriends is not subject to any Islamic judgement, but oh my dear God, what a sin I have committed by stating that I miss my husband, that I am legally Islamically married to. Please throw me down with punishment, I deserve it! Not only do i eat halal meat, but please forgive me, I am also married to a man in a marriage that is Islamically recognized!! Shame on me!!
its not a joke
telling compleet strangers about what all you wish to do to your husband may be all fine, but civilized people keep this sort of talks of PDA a little private. From my understanding islam advocates decency and modesty, and to me someone talking in public about how she wants to kiss and hold her husband, smell him and what nots is a little bit on the other side of modesty.
where does one then draw the line? at what point about ppl talking about what is something private between a husband and wife become risque?
I suppose we have different standards of modesty :) That is okay.
Oh yes and i forget. Speaking on a forum, where people cannot see my face and to people who wouldnt recognize me on the street is of course 'public'. I know that I said that I wanted to kiss my husband, but 'how' I wanted to kiss him, smell and hold him? Please forgive me sir, I only thought that there was one way to offer a kiss. Maybe I should take a lesson from those oh so Islamic girls who hang around streets with school boys smoking whilst donning the headscarf!! I surely need to learn a few thing about Islam from them, because of course I am committing sin by wanting to kiss my husband.
telling compleet strangers about what all you wish to do to your husband may be all fine, but civilized people keep this sort of talks of PDA a little private. From my understanding islam advocates decency and modesty, and to me someone talking in public about how she wants to kiss and hold her husband, smell him and what nots is a little bit on the other side of modesty.
where does one then draw the line? at what point about ppl talking about what is something private between a husband and wife become risque?
I suppose we have different standards of modesty :) That is okay.
and the way u r missing ur husband nd whatever u want to do is neither indecent nor un islamic..
what i understood from whatever X2 said is that in our society expressing these feelings particularly in these words is still considered indecent.. u may have noticed that such type of dialouges/expressions are not allowed on TV, specially PTV.
i hope u will not take my comment as offence..i just wanted to clear the point.