May Allah give us sense of ability to follow these guidelines. Aameen.
- Put away your phone in their
presence. - Pay attention to what they
are saying. - Accept their opinions.
- Engage in their conversations.
- Look at them with respect.
- Always praise them.
- Share good news with them.
- Avoid sharing bad news with
them. - Speak well of their friends and loved ones to them.
- Keep in remembrance the good things they did.
- If they repeat a story, listen like it’s the first time they tell it.
- Don’t bring up painful memories from the past.
- Avoid side conversations in their presence.
- Sit respectfully around them.
- Don’t belittle/ criticize their
opinions and thoughts. - Avoid cutting them off when they speak.
- Respect their age.
- Avoid hitting/ disciplining their grandchildren around them.
- Accept their advice and direction.
- Give them the power of leadership when they are present.
- Avoid raising your voice at them.
- Avoid walking in front or ahead of them.
- Avoid eating before them.
- Avoid glaring at them.
- Fill them with ur appreciation even when they don’t think they
deserve it. - Avoid putting your feet up in front of them or sitting with your back to them.
- Don’t speak ill of them to the point where others speak ill of them too.
- Keep them in your prayers
always. - Avoid seeming bored or tired of them in their presence.
- Avoid laughing at their faults/ mistakes.
- Do a task before they ask you to.
- Continuously visit them.
- Choose your words carefully when speaking with them.
- Call them by names they like.
- Make them your priority above anything.
Parents are treasure on this land and sooner than you think, that treasure will be buried.
Appreciate your parents while you still can.
Today lets make loads of duas for our beloved parents, alive or deceased.
Ya Allah ease the burdens of our beloved parents, ﺁﻣِﻴْﻦ ﻳَﺎﺭَﺏَّ ﺍﻟْﻌَﺎﻟَﻤِﻴﻦْ
Ya Allah remove their burdens due to debt,
ﺁﻣِﻴْﻦ ﻳَﺎﺭَﺏَّ ﺍﻟْﻌَﺎﻟَﻤِﻴﻦْ
Ya Allah ease their pain, ﺁﻣِﻴْﻦ ﻳَﺎﺭَﺏَّ ﺍﻟْﻌَﺎﻟَﻤِﻴﻦْ
Ya Allah give shifa for the diseases they’re suffering from, ﺁﻣِﻴْﻦ ﻳَﺎﺭَﺏَّ ﺍﻟْﻌَﺎﻟَﻤِﻴﻦْ
Ya Allah never make them dependent on anyone besides YOU until their last breath,
ﺁﻣِﻴْﻦ ﻳَﺎﺭَﺏَّ ﺍﻟْﻌَﺎﻟَﻤِﻴﻦْ
We should respect and honour our parents. Never hurt them, part of the reason of all the troubles they’re undergoing is due to us
.
Their debts are due to fulfilling our needs,
Their poor health is due to their efforts in giving us the best,
Their every breath is a sacrifice made for their children.
Ya Allah bless our parents with Happiness.
Make a promise that u would at least do one thing today which will make UR parents happy.
It is an Amana that we pray for our parents
“Allahumma irhamhumaa kamaa
rabbayaanee sagheeraa”.
(Oh, Allah, have mercy upon them as they have raised me from the cradle)May Allah bless our parents with goodhealth, wealth, deen and blessings.
Aameen.
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hoping mercy of Allah