A married woman that knows her husband might be having affairs or going after another woman but turns a blind eye. Why wouldn’t she get angry or actually talk to him about it? Wouldn’t she feel liking breaking his ring finger “by accident”? She acts like she doesn’t know about it even if she does and posts up that he’s a blessing and all that BS.
Explain this behavior. I’m a woman but I still can’t understand why she refuses to see this.
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She might have been advised by some "learned" person that "it's a phase he's going through" or she may be afraid of the social repercussions of marriage break-down. Perhaps she's worried that she can't support her family financially on her own so she's ignoring the obvious.
There could be a hundred reasons!
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Maybe she is playing the long game. Maybe she intends to hand his tashreef to him during divorce proceedings.
Every person is different, every woman is different. Generalizations are for simple minded people who are not capable to nuanced thinking.
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Doesn't matter what the married woman thinks or even why her husband can't manage to be faithful. If the other woman has come to know of this triangle, she should end things with him. If she already has, no point in her trying to analyze the psyche of two people that have no place in her life.
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A married woman that knows her husband might be having affairs or going after another woman but turns a blind eye. Why wouldn't she get angry or actually talk to him about it? Wouldn't she feel liking breaking his ring finger "by accident"? She acts like she doesn't know about it even if she does and posts up that he's a blessing and all that BS.
Explain this behavior. I'm a woman but I still can't understand why she refuses to see this.
Fear he might get angry, scared he might leave her, it's not the "done" thing to confront a husband, maybe she doesn't want to face up to what's happening, is in denial or just hoping he'll change.. there are a million different reasons she might keep quiet..
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Why should the other woman do anything? The guy shouldn't be cheating in the first place and the wife found out... She should inform him and watch what he does next.
If there is no remorse or guilt or anything then she should pack her bags and thank him for the alimony
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She could be doing this for one or more reasons below:
She does not work or even if she does, does not make enough money to support herself financially.
She has kids and thinks this is better than a divorce. With kids, #1](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=1) above is also a factor.
She thinks she won’t be able to find anyone else if she leaves and doesn’t want to spend life alone.
General lack of self-esteem/self-respect.
She thinks all men do this.
It’s too painful for her to think about/admit. Pretending to be ignorant and pretending that her husband is great is a way for her to keep herself sane. It helps her get through the day without having a nervous breakdown.
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Perhaps she already wanted to share her husband with someone, anyone.
No?
Ok
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Perhaps she already wanted to share her husband with someone, anyone.
No?
Ok
in this vein.....
maybe she has her own "bit on the side"?
maybe he's just not good for anything other than financial support?
maybe they have "an understanding" that you don't know about?
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Traumas affect people in different ways, and it can take time to understand and perceive the reality of a situation, particularly one so personal. Feelings evolve and shift over time.
On top of that, she may feel shame and blame, that somehow she lacks something and make excuses for the behavior. She may rationalize to avoid rocking the boat. That is even more likely if there are children involved.
It is a very sad and difficult thing.
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in this vein.....
maybe she has her own "bit on the side"? maybe he's just not good for anything other than financial support? maybe they have "an understanding" that you don't know about?
Yes of course. There is no end to the possibilities. Qabr ka haal murda aur shadi ka haal miaan bivi he jantay hain..
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maybe she is right. he blassingz. y u jalus?
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She is an alien
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By the way, how are you so sure that this woman doesn't confront the husband or they do not have arguments over this?? how can you know what happens behind the closed doors?
may be this woman just put up a show that she finds her husband as a blessing and that everything is okay between them so that the other woman gets the idea that she can't havoc her home and stays away from the husband??
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mind these kind of women who keep on bashing men. I really hate this. Do we need this to make public even if this happens? or you take that reputation thread.
I don’t want to know this.