MIL going hajj

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So what is expected ?

I.mean.when.people.go.hajj what happens once they return? What’s normal preparation and.what’s.normal when.they are back.

I.know nothing religious so please tell.me.

Thank u

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Re: MIL going hajj

make sure you started to wear hijab, as she would be expecting that from you

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Re: MIL going hajj

No
I.doubt.it. am.talking of khatams and socially?

P.s.have started hijab anyway

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Re: MIL going hajj

Get an outfit or two ready for her.

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Re: MIL going hajj

she should stop making your life a living hell through the 'kaamwaali'... :p

ask her to pray for your most desired wish to come true! :D

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Re: MIL going hajj

What's the point of doing hajj when she treats you so poorly? hain?

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Re: MIL going hajj

There is nothing in religion about what to do with Hajis but desis go slightly psycho about the kind of welcome and see off they want. Be prepared with a bouquet, flower necklaces and meethai. If you can rally all the close family to group together to either welcome or see them off then that would be good too.

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Re: MIL going hajj

Spread out a red carpet starting from the airport all the way to your home. Sprinkle flowers on it for her. Just make sure the flowers will be different from those on the garlands you'll put around her neck

Keep it simple. You can cook a nice meal and buy some mithai. That is sufficient. Or if you want you can get her a suit as Lusi suggested by I don't think that is necessary.

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Re: MIL going hajj

. Let's just hope this hajj will make mil more nicer. Change isn't impossible. Nadz herself is changing for the better MashaAllah.