methods of hair removal

[ZareenKhan]

Re: methods of hair removal

@stoppit

depends on your character.

if it were me, i’d do nothing. he’s the one with the issue, so he has to get over it.

whatever you do/don’t do, there are going to be many times in your married life when you can’t maintain hair removal - not enough time, other more important things to deal with, just can’t be bothered. spouses just have to get over their little niggles, if they can’t, neither is going to be very happy or content.

Excuse me?! Why bring ego in each and everything? I don’t thing that is gonna help a marriage survive.

I am sure when there is not enough time, the spouse would understand but that doesnt mean WHEN you have the time to look after yourself you don’t just because you think you won’t be able to keep up with it.

p.s I can understand during pregnancies or kids exams perhaps the mothers dnt get enough time but that is not gonna happen 24/7.

@llxxll

you are right…the amount of hair removal he wants I feel like I will never be able to maintain that…privates and underarms toh islamically bhi karne chaahiye…but with my legs i have rarely if ever removed hairs from my legs and same with my arms…as for my tummy chest shoulders and back I have never ever removed hairs from there…m just really depressed because i think it is an unrealistic expectation but I feel like if I dont fulfill it i wont be attractive to him

What’s there to be depressed about? Believe me! I don’t think waxing can hurt anyone as much as it hurts me, lols i literally get stressed out 2 days prior to my waxing appoinments but does that stop me? NO! Because i understand its imp part of my hygiene as well as it feels good. I think you are married and you have all the more reasons to actually want to get it done yourself.

@MehreenAziz

Its perfectly ok. It has nothing to do with immaturity of a guy. There are many women who dont like hairy men..and then there are those who like the other way around. I think you should get waxing done on your stomach but leave the back if bleach can help.

I agree.

I think back doesnt hurt that much, atleats on me it perhaps hurt alot less than legs. It may be different for you but give it a try and i am sure it wont be that bad. As for stomach, i think most dont have much hair on it so you can get the obvious ones waxed maybe?