Re: Messy People
sadzz: this is what I have done. But sadly it rather brought opposite results.
Mirch: saying is easier than doing. And seeing it from a man's perspective you cant have an idea how much insecure a girl tends to be when she has to face such ugly behaviours even before her marriage. Its a big decision and its going to cost me my life. Now the comparison of 29 years old and 20 yearsold I have explained in my reply to mistral. Lahol walla quwat that I will get jealous of her. Im not that mehroom of love alhamdolillah. So this is completely out of the context here.
Guys some of you jut posted for the sake of posting it. Without even understanding the real situation im going thru. Maybe I couldnt explain myself correctly.
Again, redvelvet, you said that im going to marry her brother and not her. Well my fiance lives abroad. He would come to marry and ofcourse will return to his job after a month or so. If I dont choose to live with him I have to live here depending on my inlaws for every kind of support (expcept the financial one, I myself work) but well I need a peaceful life in my future. May Allah grant me so.