meri bachPan kee saheLyaan have Lost it (sigh)

Lifestyle Relationships
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we used to be so NORMAL, so SANE so “WE HATE GUYS” wala group

we were a group of 4 since primary school, alhamdulillah still the tightest of friendz

school mein saray larkay hum se das feet doore hi raha kartay thay :smiley:

also we were the top 4 students in our class thru-out

cool na?

LEKIN

ab hum chaaRon mein se

aik kee shaadi ho gai

aur doosri kee mangni [and btw she is moving to lahore cryingsobbing*weeping ] and btw she works in my office lucky me na we meet everyday :stuck_out_tongue:

my best friends r parai hoying :crying:

now the thing is K

jis ki shaadi hui hae

she was the ultra strict one jis se saray larkay KAANPTAY thay, i mean she did a teaching job and only SHE could control a class full of 45 banday class 11 ke, the principal gave her the most rowdy section, and she was very sweet but very firm nobody used to misbehave with her

khair

us ki shadi ho gai aur GUESS WHAT she was telling us

poori raat ko she was up doing matha patti with baraf on her hubby’s matha coz he had a fever!!!

i could have never imagined MY SAHELI that one to do this!!! we were like TUM! POORI RAAT! JAAGI! coz HE had a fever! matha patti karnay apnay hubby kee…

we thought woh apnay hubby se apni khidmatein karwayay gi but bichari ka toh hisaab hi ulTa nikla :hehe: we were like to her hubby k aap toh hamari dost se khoob khidmatein kara rahay haen…and she was jus sitting there SMILING!!! uff SMILING and being SWEET!!! :smack: we were like yaar tum pe toh jaado shaado ho gya hae

then my other friend

khaRi khaRi she has done bisti of aik do namooNay kisam k guys jis k baad se they have been teeR ki tarhaan seedhay

madam kee abhee mangni hui hae

and

uncle, hamaray honay walay jeej, was in lahore

and she was like in a sweet voice “aap ne coat pehna hae” “coat kyun nai pehna” “sardi nai hae wahan” “aap ko sar mein dard kab se hae” “aaj office na jaayein na tabeeyat kharab hae toh”

EL O EL

uff it was TOO MUCH

she was talking in fronta us and we were all in fits mimicing her n sitting there teasing her like crazy :hehe:

seriously…what happens to girls after shaadi why do they become so cheezy and mushy?? uff

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Irem
u always have something nice to share.
I luv your writing style.
Now coming to your thread get married and
u'll be doing the same. :)

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In kindergarten all the girls hate the boys, they’re scared of catching “cooties”. Sigh.Kids are so adorable at that age.

irem most of my friends have gotten married and moved on.Im the official “aunty” for their kids.:blush:

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SAJAL hawww mein aur aisi fuzool chikni chapri baatein? tsk tsk KABHEE NAI kaano ko haath lagaain

mein toh shadi se pehLe hi confirm kar loon gi k larkay ko

  • baRtan maanJnay
  • kapray dhoNay
  • silai karhai
  • farash chamkana

ye saray kaam atay haen ya nai :smiley:

larka sughar gharelu aur khidmatguzar hona chahiye :hehe:

M_Q yaar tell me abt it all the kids in our mohalla have started referring to me as AUNTY as well :eek: :hehe:

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Irem -- itni sari qualities and in one guy?!? impossible.

I've asked ma to look out at Edhi's for a guy as he'll have a lil of each taht u've mentioned above plus no mama, papa or siblings. Long Live Edhi.

Btw, what r u doing after eid? how about a quick meet?

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[QUOTE]
Originally posted by irem: *
SAJAL hawww mein aur aisi fuzool chikni chapri baatein? tsk tsk KABHEE NAI *kaano ko haath lagaain

[/QUOTE]

lol.. my friends tease me a lot like u do to ur married friends.. things change when u get married.. wait till its ur turn.. phir poochay gai ;) :p

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omg we were four biggest man hatters too :eek: n very smart :blush: lol i guess all good things come to an end .. but get a man n watch u will turn into one of them :stuck_out_tongue:

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u need to get married irem. fast!

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by irem: *

mein toh shadi se pehLe hi confirm kar loon gi k larkay ko

  • baRtan maanJnay
  • kapray dhoNay
  • silai karhai
  • farash chamkana

ye saray kaam atay haen ya nai :D

[/QUOTE]

I assume he won't be Pakistani then? Coz if you expect a Paki guy to do that then aisa to khwabon main bhi dekhna mushkil hai chanda.

The story you told about your group when you were little. hmm. well I was the same kind. I won't say all girls hate boys in that age. coz I've seen A LOT who don't. But yeah, aisa type ki girls are quite common too and I was one of them as well. I never used to hate guys though but the thing was that in both of my co-ed junior high schools in Pakistan where I spent two years..wahan par masla kuch iss tarha ka tha that guys used to hate all other girls in our class and they would talk to me if they wanted to convey some message to other girls :D. That was funny...messages like sirf studies se related. Coz I used to treate girls and guys the same. I wasn't a big hater. But yeah when it comes to shadi and all that...well i wasnt into it. i used to think and still think that a person can live alone coz ive seen many and knowing myself, yes I can. But once you have someone special in your life then your ideas and opinions about things just change. Coz as you grow older, you understand how the society works. Thats when you do know that you have to get married and start your own life with some other stranger. I used to hate this concept, like REALLY HATE IT. But now, it's so much easier for me to accept it because the person I want to marry isn't a stranger to me any more, I know him so well. But if he wasn't there in my life, I don't think it wouldve been easy for me to get into that arranged marriage thing. Okay..i think im getting off topic..ill shut up. :D

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u'll laugh at this post if u read it after u r married....
and will say to urself "how silly i had been"....

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why is it the girls who abhor the idea of marriage always get the most proposals or rishtas and the ones who wanna get married don’t? :bummer:

this is in no reference to anyone in particular, just my general observations :rolleyes:

sorry to barge in, continue with ur conversations :flower1:

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lovely as ever Iremji :hehe:

I wonder if the same will happen to Sadzz an Mehnaz ? :stuck_out_tongue:

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:hehe: Irem you Always manage to make me smile!

Fikar na karo - I’ll ask you after you get engaged/married about how you are treating your husband :slight_smile:
People change yaar. When you get married, fall in love, certain emotions and characteristics come out that you never thought you had :smiley:

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Rb yar dekhein ge :smiley:

d_p ye toh wakt hi batayay ga :smiley:

Sara is that true? hmmm
i think every girl (and guy) no matter what they say, do want to get married. maybe some have a timeline in mind or certain expectations and are not ready to go for someone who doesnt fit their criteria, and prefer waiting, but i think at the end of the day everyone does wana get married, coz thats something natural that Allah swt has made part of human nature

armughal bhai tab ki tab dekhi jayay gi i guess :hehe:

Desto i was kidding man. and hey that was interesting u dint need to shut up, keep going…

lussi i c, thanks for the suggestion :halo:

T_J u mean in school u were also a group of four? u still keep in touch with em n stuff?

suroor haha so u act like this too :stuck_out_tongue: tsk tsk :smiley:

X-com, hey would be a pleasure. after eid yeah? im usually free evenings after 7ish and weekends. what abt u? monasha said she wanted to have a karachi meet. maybe we can have one after eid. PM me if you r thinking abt it :slight_smile:

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Hi Sweetoe Irem
First i want to say ur so funny hahahahahaa.
And the 2nd thing im also married but not that
cheezy and mushy. Even when i was engaged with
my hubby i was not like that.
Ya lil bit worried but not that much like ur friends lolzzz!!
Anywayz like some1 said here go married and u will
do the same thing. Hmmm... i want to know how u
are after marriage lolz if its so far let me know Okay Lolzzzzz.
Then i will tell u if ur Mushy & cheezy :p Lolzzzzzzzzz.

Kisses Nilu.

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naaaa, I think Iremji is already a somewhat soft type :stuck_out_tongue:
she s trying to sound ‘tough’ in this thread but from her other posts one can derive that she is a softy :stuck_out_tongue:

pls do tell If I am mistaken :halo:

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Hmmm.. dont know Dutchy coz there is so many post here
that i dont remember lolz.
En hoe kan je via een post opmaken dat ze een softy is hahahahaa.

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kom op zeg :hoonh:

Het gaat om de stijl waarmee iemand schrijft.
Irem bijvoorbeeld heeft nooit hier iemand beledigd. Ook geeft ze redelijke adviesen etc. :stuck_out_tongue:

komt veel uit naar voren :stuck_out_tongue:

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well by school i meant university…its so hard to keep in touch with the married ones but we def try to..n one of em moved to a diff state so never get to see her :frowning: but we talk on the phone n stuff..

btw wats wrong with being mushy n cheezy at times :blush:

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Hmmm… Okeez zal opletten Lolz!