If its so hard to believe that a phupo can ruin umer and maham’s relationship, isn’t same thing happening in Humsafar. MIL is ruining his son’s khushi. How is this any different than Humsafar and why is everyone so against this drama? Story is created differently but its the same concept, one person ruining everyone’s life.
Humsfar main Khirad apni saas ki asleeyat na dikha sakhi.. and just like Umer in this drama, Asher blindly believed his own mom. People are liking Humsfar with somewhat same concept and not this because of Fawad Khan??!!
Humsafar 's script is not that “out of this world” kinda thing but over all a good presentation (direction, acting and even the son that compliments) so overall a good package with message to patchup and to make “men think” and be more sensitive comparing to mere Qatil… Umer’s mohabat is i guess not mohabt (even he is admitting that he is not sure) and what’s up with that pupophoo thing? it’s so unnatural
I also don't think that Humsafar is anything out of this world. It has more flaws than mere qatil mere dildaar actually.. the letter being one of the MAJOR thing and somewhat of a joke now. I am not a die hard fan of either one of the drama... I've seen loud families.. girls in being a similar situation as mere qatil mere dildaar. My own relative had an amazing husband who loved her more than anything but gave up in the end because of constant nagging/potrayal of their bahu being bad from his family. He ended up divorcing the girl. I am just saying that to me the main concept in the drama isn't any different from Humsafar. Yes the families aren't at the same level.. one is loud one is more sophisticated. Loud families.. Trust me.. I've seen enough!
^ well atleast asher didn't say those 3 words on spot just like stupid omer did without even going deep into the issue even though asher was equally or may be more mad and hurt. he still acted better. i just hate it how a man u spend so much time with doesn't even take few mins to solve a marital prob and instantly uses his right to divorce. i think ulmahs should ban this kind of rushed and emotional divorce. actually in india the shariah court has already made a law where divorce based on anger will be nullified.
and what does this drama teaches a girl that if she tells her husband she will be in a tight spot and since she handled the situation alone she was still punished. so wat a girl should do " never complain abt ur inlaws to ur partner" or " always complain abt them on serious issues" both ways the girl will get the burn esp if the husband is typical and immature like omar which are way too many in our society.
The family may rich but they are janglis...........Umar is not a real man...he has no guts! And Bakhtiar know this all along and this is why he can get away with this. The phupoos didn't want Umar to marry Mahum in the first place so she loves the fact that he divorced her on the spot. Her wish and dream come true. I don't know if it would be far to compare Humsafar to MQMD.....Humsafar's set is definitely more sophisticated and reflects that. The house that Umar lives in doesn't even look that rich or upscale. Actually Mahum's house is far better than Umar's. I suppose the producer didn't spend as much on set as they did for Humsafar.
aaj kul kay zamanay mein sirf wo lerki aik kaamyaab biwi bun sakti hai jo:
Upnay shohar kay agay aik lafz na us kay khaandaan k baray mein kahay
chup ker kay her zulm sehti jaey
upni khwaahishaat ko bilkul maar ker aik zinda laash bun ker reh jaey
kisi ko bhi susraal mein oppose kernay ka sochay bhi na
deiwar say full time bana ker rakhay
this is so much gross man!!!!!
ye kahan hota hai aaj kul.... aik lerki jis ka husband ye ho aur wo keray (humsafar/mere qatil mere dildaar) us kay paas aur koi personal privacy reh he nahi gai kya?????? no phone/ no emails / no facebook :SSSSS shaadi ka matlab ye to nahi hota hai ap nay lerki ko khareed leeya hai!!!!
bohut galt portray ker rahaen haen humaray dramas mein DIL's ka role... khaaas tor per MQMD mein!!!!!
humsafar mein phir khirad nay stand lay leeya hai.....
and what does this drama teaches a girl that if she tells her husband she will be in a tight spot and since she handled the situation alone she was still punished. so wat a girl should do " never complain abt ur inlaws to ur partner" or " always complain abt them on serious issues" both ways the girl will get the burn esp if the husband is typical and immature like omar which are way too many in our society.
I also don't think that Humsafar is anything out of this world. It has more flaws than mere qatil mere dildaar actually.. the letter being one of the MAJOR thing and somewhat of a joke now. I am not a die hard fan of either one of the drama... I've seen loud families.. girls in being a similar situation as mere qatil mere dildaar. My own relative had an amazing husband who loved her more than anything but gave up in the end because of constant nagging/potrayal of their bahu being bad from his family. He ended up divorcing the girl. I am just saying that to me the main concept in the drama isn't any different from Humsafar. Yes the families aren't at the same level.. one is loud one is more sophisticated. Loud families.. Trust me.. I've seen enough!
as far as tht letter is concerned it was given to a child he might have lost it or they might show something in the end n plz asher atleast wanted 2 talk 2 her want 2 listen 2 her n was ready 2 believe her n he said mei phele uss ki suna ga aur woh galat hui tu mei usaay jan se mar du ga yeah he wasnt right at tht time it was his anger but atleast he was more sensible than omer not blind bc he wanted 2 talk 2 khirad n now again despite his mum doesnt want khirad in his house still he is atleadt speaking in front of her nothing is wthout flaws no one is perfect but plz humsafar n MDMQ cant be compared at all humsafar is much much better thn MDMQ atleast ppl can relate 2 humsafar but not MDMQ :)
as far as tht letter is concerned it was given to a child he might have lost it or they might show something in the end n plz asher atleast wanted 2 talk 2 her want 2 listen 2 her n was ready 2 believe her n he said mei phele uss ki suna ga aur woh galat hui tu mei usaay jan se mar du ga yeah he wasnt right at tht time it was his anger but atleast he was more sensible than omer not blind bc he wanted 2 talk 2 khirad n now again despite his mum doesnt want khirad in his house still he is atleadt speaking in front of her nothing is wthout flaws no one is perfect but plz humsafar n MDMQ cant be compared at all humsafar is much much better thn MDMQ atleast ppl can relate 2 humsafar but not MDMQ :)
We don't know what's to come in Mere Qatil... or do you?
And okay .. you must have your opinion... all fair. To me they are all the same... What someone else said, same concept, aurat aurat ki dushman, portrayed in a different way.
^ well atleast asher didn't say those 3 words on spot just like stupid omer did without even going deep into the issue even though asher was equally or may be more mad and hurt. he still acted better. i just hate it how a man u spend so much time with doesn't even take few mins to solve a marital prob and instantly uses his right to divorce. i think ulmahs should ban this kind of rushed and emotional divorce. actually in india the shariah court has already made a law where divorce based on anger will be nullified.
and what does this drama teaches a girl that if she tells her husband she will be in a tight spot and since she handled the situation alone she was still punished. so wat a girl should do " never complain abt ur inlaws to ur partner" or " always complain abt them on serious issues" both ways the girl will get the burn esp if the husband is typical and immature like omar which are way too many in our society.
actually pakistanis or should i say pakistani dramas have it all wrong!!!!!! when u say divorce three times at the same time it counts as ONE divorce...then you have 125 days to do rajoo [make up] but your alrady accounted for one divorce, if u dont make up in that time then dirovce ho gai ...if it happens again that counts as the SECOND divorce and then again u can make up within a 125 days time period but the third time there is no room to make up again..that finalizes your divorce.
please refer to surah bakarah where it is explained with all details and easy to understand,. so i dont know why they show that if u say it three times all at once, thats it your done...they are mis leading people
and also who the heck is the court to make rulings that contradict with islam...whether u divorce in anger, toxicated, in your senses, it counts!!!! why do u think its looked so down upon and why anger is considered one of the worse emotions, because u shud control urself or walk away...most divorces happen in anger, doesnt mean that just cause a court says it, they dont count!
Umer is quite weird … he claimed that he was “in love” and never protected her , never took stand for her in any case … but feeling guilty ke main ne apnay ghar walon ka dil torra " blaaaahhhhhhhhh.. confused whether he should marry her cuz.. 50/50 (before all the trouble… ) when bhabhi said that he made a mistake he was not even devastated, and claim that he was not sure ke ye mohat thi be? never took stand in front of pophoo while maham was keep complaing rather he was telling mahem to be more nice or be more “saber” , didn’t gave her any “maan” (confidence) that he will ever stand for her and he didn’t
"asher "was protecting and taking care of his wife throughout , he was “shaki” too but wanted to know what happened , his mother already kicked khirad and he scared him that "khirad wants divorce sooner or latter so maybe thats why he was not attending her calls that maybe she ask for divorce and he had a male ego.. but when she return he didn’t say any thing bad i mean few words things that he used “natural” reaction ofcourse but he was not violent and acting quiet normally infront of the child he didn’t humiliated his wife and when his mother was bad mouth has reaction was respectful for mother but he was not agree
trust me it happens in this very society we live in...
they showed in Mere Qaatil mere dildaar that after umar and bakhtiyars mom died it was phopo who brought them up like a mother..so no big difference..
And there are maaanyy guys like umar who have no backbone and can be manipulated very easily either by their wives against their families or their own families agains their wives
This drama has picked up a lot over the past few weeks. Didn't think much of it in the beginning, but I quite enjoy it now.
I like the girl who plays Maham. I find her acting to be very realistic. I hope she takes revenge on Bakhtiar .... it's the only way she can take revenge is by going back into that family.
I found that scene where Bakhtiar's wife tries to massage him so funny. The way he gets all startled and looks at her, the music played in the background, it was just hilarious.
and what’s up with that pupophoo thing? it’s so unnatural 
so sad! omar 
Aurat (Farhat Ishtiaq & Aliya Ahmed) Aurat (Khirad & Maham) ki dushman hoti hai. Such a negative portryal of today’s women 
his mother already kicked khirad and he scared him that "khirad wants divorce sooner or latter so maybe thats why he was not attending her calls that maybe she ask for divorce and he had a male ego.. but when she return he didn’t say any thing bad i mean few words things that he used “natural” reaction ofcourse but he was not violent and acting quiet normally infront of the child 