mere qatil mere dildar

ashykh · January 24, 2012, 2:29pm

Re: mere qatil mere dildar

India v Pakistan at Dhaka - Jun 10, 2008

^ well atleast asher didn’t say those 3 words on spot just like stupid omer did without even going deep into the issue even though asher was equally or may be more mad and hurt. he still acted better. i just hate it how a man u spend so much time with doesn’t even take few mins to solve a marital prob and instantly uses his right to divorce. i think ulmahs should ban this kind of rushed and emotional divorce. actually in india the shariah court has already made a law where divorce based on anger will be nullified.

and what does this drama teaches a girl that if she tells her husband she will be in a tight spot and since she handled the situation alone she was still punished. so wat a girl should do " never complain abt ur inlaws to ur partner" or " always complain abt them on serious issues" both ways the girl will get the burn esp if the husband is typical and immature like omar which are way too many in our society.

actually pakistanis or should i say pakistani dramas have it all wrong!!! when u say divorce three times at the same time it counts as ONE divorce…then you have 125 days to do rajoo [make up] but your alrady accounted for one divorce, if u dont make up in that time then dirovce ho gai …if it happens again that counts as the SECOND divorce and then again u can make up within a 125 days time period but the third time there is no room to make up again..that finalizes your divorce.
please refer to surah bakarah where it is explained with all details and easy to understand,. so i dont know why they show that if u say it three times all at once, thats it your done…they are mis leading people
and also who the heck is the court to make rulings that contradict with islam…whether u divorce in anger, toxicated, in your senses, it counts!!! why do u think its looked so down upon and why anger is considered one of the worse emotions, because u shud control urself or walk away…most divorces happen in anger, doesnt mean that just cause a court says it, they dont count!