… ek bahoot hi qareebi aur zaroori hasti (male) ya to mujh say naaraaz hai ya shermindah. ab yeh mujhay kaisay maloom ho k woh mujh say naraaz hai (meree herkatouN ki wajah say) ya mujh say shermindah hai ( meray saath rawa rakhay janay walay apnay behaviour ki wajah say)
bataiN donouN hosaktee haiN. hamaray dermiyaan ek hadde fasil qaim hai. lehaza day to day activities common honay k bawajood nah maiN oss say pooch sakta houN. aur nah hi woh kuch batata hai:
kiyouN door door rahanday o’ hazoor meray kolouN ??
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*Originally posted by usuf: *
... ek bahoot hi qareebi aur zaroori hasti (male) ya to mujh say naaraaz hai ya shermindah. ab yeh mujhay kaisay maloom ho k woh mujh say naraaz hai (meree herkatouN ki wajah say) ya mujh say shermindah hai ( meray saath rawa rakhay janay walay apnay behaviour ki wajah say)
bataiN donouN hosaktee haiN. hamaray dermiyaan ek hadde fasil qaim hai. lehaza day to day activities common honay k bawajood nah maiN oss say pooch sakta houN. aur nah hi woh kuch batata hai:
kiyouN door door rahanday o' hazoor meray kolouN ??
can n e 1 solve my problem ?
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Maybe he's thinking the same about you. You should sit down and talk to him, you two seem close and it would be a pity if because of any misunderstandings there would be distance between you two.
Maybe he's thinking the same about you. You should sit down and talk to him, you two seem close and it would be a pity if because of any misunderstandings there would be distance between you two.
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i know, this is the best way. but there is a communication gap between us. both of us don't like to talk each other without n e urgency. v have e-communication link as well. but he never replied my such type of querry / comments.
can i know the actual reason (1 of 2), without talking to him?
i know, this is the best way. but there is a communication gap between us. both of us don't like to talk each other without n e urgency. v have e-communication link as well. but he never replied my such type of querry / comments.
can i know the actual reason (1 of 2), without talking to him?
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I don't know, that's hard! Maybe if someone that knows both of you, someone trustable who wouldn't play games with both of you to make matters worse, if you have such a reliable person who is willing to help you both by talking for you? Still I think it's better for you both to talk, maybe with that reliable third party?
Or if talking is too difficult, maybe write a letter, give it to your friend personally and tell him something bothers you, since talking is hard here is a letter I wrote to you. Maybe after reading that, he will come to you himself, or write back to you.
You wil have to do something, or else it will keep on bothering you. But if it's too hard and you think you can let it go, then let it go.
Nobody else has noticed this 'change' between you two?