well! i am getting married in october 2012… i am having menstrual irregularities problem for last 3 4 years. as in for like 3 4 months or even more than that they become very much regular…then they might not come for 2 3 months or just spot…and then again come…i am worried as i am getting married…many people and even my mother says shadi k baad yeh problems theek hojatey hain…is this true? what should i do? should i worry?
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hi Ninaa dont worry it varies from person to person. Some tome tey are regular sometime not. If they are coming after 6months thn one should be worried :) enjoy ur life
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go to a gynae ... they have healthy meds and suggestions to fix this problem .. i found my solution this way :)
although .. beofre your wedding have urself checked and consult a gynae etc ... where after marriage some things are solved .. other are created .. so do pay a visit ...
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If you’re concerned about being on for your wedding/honeymoon, then I’d advise to go to the doctor and be prescribed the contraceptive pill a few months before the date. That way, you’ll be pretty regular, and if the period falls on a no-no day, you can take 2 pill packets back to back to effectively skip that period.
Although please do go to the doctor to discuss your irregular periods - it could be caused by something else, and don’t assume it’ll ‘go away after marriage’. Also, take a look at this, see if you have any other symptoms that match up. Periods, Irregular - NHS Choices
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I have exact same issue...I got married in Jan and my problem is still the same even shaadi didnt help me..on top of that i got diagnosed with PCOS like a week ago..DILLEMMA!!!
Thanks to my irregularities..i had periods on my big day!! more like the bleeding started at wedding night..before any ding dong lol..
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I don't see how this is specifically a problem for a bride. Are you worried about conceiving after marriage?
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^ I imagine it could be nto wanting to have your period fall on the wedding day/week.
I had mine on the honeymoon :hinna:
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^Yeah, just trying to figure out what the concern is, so it can be appropriately addressed.
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sahar02 already asked what i wanted to ask :D
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i am also concerned with mine.. i am having PCO since i was 18 years old (now i am 23).. my dr told me that i should see a dr just 6 months before my wedding.. its in jan 2013.. so i ll consult in july :)..doesnt matter u want to concieve immediately or not.. it somehow effects your married life :).. i hav done bds so i have studied these problems as well.
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i am getting married end of august and the dates are clashing with my on days.. what should i do , in order to skip one - two months ? as i will be busy in post wedding dinners / honeymoon and international travel.
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i am getting married end of august and the dates are clashing with my on days.. what should i do , in order to skip one - two months ? as i will be busy in post wedding dinners / honeymoon and international travel.
Wedding end of August.......you need to see a gyn and start birth control pills asap.
Will BCP's, you take pills for 3 weeks....on the 4th week.....you skip the pills and that's when you have your period. Then you start a new pack of pills after the 4th week. If you want to skip the period, you immediately start a new pack of pills after the 3rd week.
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I had mine on the wedding day, uncomfortable to say the least with all the clothes,makeup and jewellery. But apart from that not too bad 
menstrual irregularities- a big concern for a bride-to-be?
Pills are not the only option, there are other contraceptives that would be effective.
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@ sahar...u r right i have actually not made my concern very clear here...
well the dilemma is that i had been diagnosed with PCOS 3 4 yrs back...i dint mention it before because i sort of feel bad and low and quite isolated that i have this problem although every other girl has normal periods...but surprisingly, recently i have come across so many of my friends with PCOS caused menstrual irregularities....
well i went to doc 2 months back she prescribed me BCP Diane 35 alongthwith glucophage for like 3 months upto july then i will see her again in august for further prescription...im getting married in october....at the moment im not worried about wether periods fall on wedding day or not...may main concern and worry is that i just want my periods to be regular.... i am so afraid of having conceiving problem afterwards....hubby dont want baby immediately after wedding like not before 1 or one and half years...but still i want my periods to be regular... does PCOS always create conceiving hinderance..or thing like that...any way other than medicine to improve it? HELPPPPPPP
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im seriiously looking for any helppp on this...do u know anyone who had PCOS and did not have any pregnancy problem?
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There is a similar thread going on in parenting forum.
PCOS can cause menstrual irregularities and troubles when trying to conceive.But when properly tackled,getting pregnant is not impossible.It might be difficult and there is a chance you would want to try for months before you concieve.But the good thing is that you already know what the issue is,and can take appropriate measure after marriage.
And don’t feel bad about it.PCOS is a pretty common thing,although different women have different set of issues…:huigz:
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Since you’re more interested in trying to conceive, I am going to close this thread and refer you to this thread in the Parenting forum http://www.paklinks.com/gs/parenting/558980-how-to-conceive-for-a-pcos-patient.html . There are also others with similar topics, so feel free to do a search. If you want to discuss conception and pregnancy, please post in the Parenting forum.