Nahi i m talking about other stuff like boys usually would not think twice before asking their mothers or sisters to make them tea at 2 or 3 at night but they mite not say the same to their wife. And things like that and its not because they think their mom or sis r any less, its just diff comfort level i suppose?.
It may be that guys don't want to bother their wife unnecessarily (begum ko takleef nai deni chahiye :p and behave like a good husband ;) ) although they had been having all this khidmat all their lives from their moms and sis.
I meant was with the khidmat … that was the only ‘false expectation’ that parents put in our head…
that you wife will do khidmat…but we are not that stupid…so we know what really gonna happen.
What i dont understand is most of the households in pak even the average income hosue holds have maids doinga tleast one chore usually cleaning and laundary......so what sort of khidmat do people expect? taking responsibility of getting chores done is different from actually doing them.
As far as expectations are concerned most of the men expect their wife to be understanding and friendly.
This means parents give false expectations to girls about the freedom they will be having after shaadi and they give false expectations to guys that their begum will be doing their khidmat. But we are smart enough to keep our expectations low.
Why blame parents then? They just want to see their children happy now
Sort of spinning off from my other thread, my question is for the dudes....did you have any expectations in regards to how your married life would be? Whether they were small or big or whatever.... (single guys can answer this too)
Thats a good one.....
In the beginning making a lot of love.
Then alot of Paratha's , chaey (tea), Lussey, Biryani, Nihari, Kababs, Koftay, Tandoori Chicken, Chineese, Italian .... Making More love.
You know what they say ahem Excuse my language here " A perfect wife keeps his husband's stomach full and Testicles Empty"
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and Emphasis on Empty