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Always let a guy chase you. If he doesn't, he's not into you.
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Phone him in middle of the night - if he receives and say ' sorry am bit tired and have a long day plan ahead ' and try to cut the talk ..
Man - he is definitely not into U :)
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^ Man I wouldn't talk to a dying person in the middle of the night. A man has got to get his sleep.
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when he stops saying "I love you" and starts saying "where's my dinner?"
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When suddenly he acts too quiet!
or does not initiate contacts-no phone, e-mail or plan for weekend etc.
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So there is a common pattern here. A guy will not be interested --> he just wont initiate contact a whole lot/avoid/ignore, etc.
Why don't guys just come out and say - look, I'm no longer interested? Why let a girl keep calling you/emailing you/talking to you?
When I no longer like anyone, I make it obvious, and if they keep pursuing (not that I've had many such opportunities), I let them know point blank - don't call me again, ever.
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maybe they're just uncomfortable with being so upfront and forward about it.
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Some relations do not break up so abruptly.
These start with non-verbal cues and end initially with non-verbal cues.
So there is a common pattern here. A guy will not be interested --> he just wont initiate contact a whole lot/avoid/ignore, etc.
Why don't guys just come out and say - look, I'm no longer interested? Why let a girl keep calling you/emailing you/talking to you?
When I no longer like anyone, I make it obvious, and if they keep pursuing (not that I've had many such opportunities), I let them know point blank - don't call me again, ever.
Pcg to tell u the truth.........WE BROWN GUYS ARE GREAT AT INIATING THE DATING PROCESS BUT WE SOME HOW DO NOT KNOW HOW TO END IT......! may be we dont wanna break the girl's heart...No matter how cold a guy gets, he will never ever be comfortable breaking the bad news to the girl....Beleive me!
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But they're not uncomfortable tow-ing her around everywhere, and not giving her the chance to move on and find someone else?
But they're not uncomfortable tow-ing her around everywhere, and not giving her the chance to move on and find someone else?
Thats the worst part...guys dont wana face it, they know they dont wana be with a certain girl but canont communicate...will alwayz try to drop hints like not comin for chatting, miss a date and give crapy reasons, etc.....its built in because there is no DATING CULTURE.....its not buiolt in...will take a few generations to go through the process and makeit work...works just like any systemmmm!
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I think most people who end thing sthis way do it to be nice and non confrontational. Nobody wants to intentionally hurt someone so they just stop talking and hope that the person will get the hint. I guess its their way of not making a break up messy?
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Am I the only one who tells a person - sorry.don't bother calling again, not interested??
Do you girls do the same? Because not calling from a girl's side can also mean playing hard to get.
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I dont think either way is wrong or right...but some people just need to be told straight up whiel others can get the hint.
I think most people who end thing sthis way do it to be nice and non confrontational. Nobody wants to intentionally hurt someone so they just stop talking and hope that the person will get the hint. I guess its their way of not making a break up messy?
Guys are very afraid of Emotional blackmailing/"making a scene" out of it that makes the situation loud.Guys will do it and will alwayz feel guilty about it later but will alwayz feel guilty.Its different from playing hard....!
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Thats why In our culture U will notice that even divorce is very loud and BITTER,shouting, curses etc Unlike western people who take it much more calmy and as a part of life!