So there is a common pattern here. A guy will not be interested --> he just wont initiate contact a whole lot/avoid/ignore, etc.
Why don't guys just come out and say - look, I'm no longer interested? Why let a girl keep calling you/emailing you/talking to you?
When I no longer like anyone, I make it obvious, and if they keep pursuing (not that I've had many such opportunities), I let them know point blank - don't call me again, ever.
Pcg to tell u the truth.........WE BROWN GUYS ARE GREAT AT INIATING THE DATING PROCESS BUT WE SOME HOW DO NOT KNOW HOW TO END IT......! may be we dont wanna break the girl's heart...No matter how cold a guy gets, he will never ever be comfortable breaking the bad news to the girl....Beleive me!