What are the advantages/disadvantages of marrying an older man?
Same question in relation to a younger man or maybes a man the same age?
I find myself attracted to older men…i dont know why, but they seem sexier with age as they use their intellect and social/common sense more than they need to use their looks…
My current infactuation is my 53 year old lecturer…hes very smart, witty, intelligent and oh so sexy, but he’s married…thats the thing with older men…they’r all flipping married…
Now, younger guys or guys the same age are just eye-candy, it’s very rare for me to conversate with a younger guy or a guy the same age as me without him thinking crude thoughts, its such a big turn off, not to mention the lack of experiencing the evils that are women…
I like older men too, but I find the older I get the closer in age to me they get :-).
Basically, I think the older men are more serious, responsible, have manners, try to know who you are rather than just look at the outside shell, and are willing to listen.
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I think this older men mentality is more prevalent in women from our culture and women that are incecure.
Women will be better off going out and marrying men that are younger to them. The young men are easy to control since women mature faster than men.
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Older men are so..... swoons. And sinner amazingly is right - they have more experience so they know better how to handle women - how to respond to their statements, etc. Younger guys are just beginning to learn, so they make mistakes more often. Also, older guys have gotten rid of the anxiety of "i gotta have sex, i gotta have sex". Because they've probably already had a great deal of it that it doesn't hold the same kind of excitement as when they were young. So, they're able to focus on a lot more when talking to you than staring at your body or bringing the topic on to sex like ... daily...
Er, well, that's from what I've seen at least. Notice how single old men are way more perverted than married old men
I also like older men, when i was 16 yrs old i had a crush on someone but he was already married. My husband and i age is 6 yrs difference. Bout younger guyz who is serious but not much of them.
Girls who marry older guys generally don’t have to worry about finances & if it had been a concern in their life, it’s a good little change. A younger guy will seldom boss you around, so those who don't want to be told what/how to do things its good to have someone like that around. A guy with the same age is out of luck :D
If you know all the 70 jokes, its fun to be with someone older otherwise you two are stuck in two different decades.
Keep your options open, don't create prejudices in your mind about certain age groups, age etc. is insignificant when it comes to true love, I've seen 16 year olds with men in their 60’s and they're living fulfilling lives just like same age couples.
I myself sometimes find mature women (up until their 40’s) attractive but only those aunties who are growing graceful and beautiful (not face lift ones), they’re just so much more 'charismatic', feminine and Sugharr unlike young girls, can't cook a damn meal to save their lives.
No wonder most of u desi gurls are single, u want a buddha thurky who lives on viagra & has kids...fine go ahead have all the fun with them buddha's. Dont come around next time, whining "I have a sautan"
Not too well. I am still single and find myself unable to take a younger guy seriously. The older ones I develop crushes on are ofcourse married. And if an older guys proposal comes in I feel disgusted. Yes I have issues.
^ welcome back, you single, ready to mingle chick. I was thinking about you all those days.
Atleast, you girls think about it. When am I gonna bring myself to think about this very important issue in my life, oh I feel nauseated whenever anyone brings this up.
i have issues too, i love u now for admitting it as i thought i was the only one!! 
welcome back, you single, ready to mingle chick. I was thinking about you all those days.