Men: Your First Move

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So let’s say you like a girl, and you wanna show interest in her.

What is your FIRST move?

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Re: Men: Your First Move

stare non-stop

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it is cheap tactics and girls hate to those guys who stare/ogle.

PCG: guy could simply give her hint like it is very nice to meet you/ i would like to meet you again/ i m feeling happy when you are here/ lets make plan to meet again if you like etc.

my two cents.

:eek:

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And also slowly lick your lips top to bottom. Simultaneously croon Fitty Cent's "I love you like a fat kid loves cake." But keep them eyes on him. You'll be on your way to marital bliss in no time. :)

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Depends. Every chick is complicated and different. If i like a girl and i don't know her then i would make myself known to her by introducing myself and simply having chat with her. From there i would know what kind of girl she is and work accordingly. And for heaven sake..if i want her to be mother of my future kids kinda love then God help me. I would chase her until i marry her. Quiet of a stubborn i am eh!. That is just me.

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coffee ka nahi pocho gay?

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Saying Hello. Hey you gotta start somewhere!

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stare nonstop yes that’s one desi idea and then make kissing expressions at her, send her subliminal messages through the stares saying you want her…there :biggthumb: and yes i’ve seen desi guys doing this and it works like a charm

although what CM said would be a lot a lot better wish desi guys would do that more often :bummer:…why can’t desi men be MEN and make those first moves darnit, take charge in those times when it’s difficult for the gal

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Dont gals Blush anymore? If you blush infront of him he would know. At least happens to me. I blush really quickly :hehe: which sometimes i really hate.

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^i don't know whether it's called blush when i do it but it's more like shyness and i can't look at him in the eyes. sharmileeness but it's not on purpose, it's just that i get flustered/nervous and lower my gaze

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^ yes thats natural. I think that is blushing :hehe:

and you face goes pink or red. thats another indication that u are blushing.

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cool then i’m a blusher too:flowers:

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A wink and a tongue rattle. Works miracles.

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No caveman approaches? You know, bash her on the head and drag her by the hair back to your cave

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stare............

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Staring is so cheap ... IMO :-P

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very first incident - smile

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Desi guys essentially have these three milestones

1- stare (it's desi version of Joey hOw yOu dOiN?)
2- I love you (yeah it's a pick up line)
3- make me a sammich or chai (fast fwd to after shaadi)

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Of course..i would. She has to go with me..no ifs and buts about it..agar pasand kar liya tu kesi ko. O ya..i am good at complementing as well. If she is pretty..i don't feel shy to say she is beautiful.

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I have rarely made the first move.

Btw- ladies don't just blame desi men for staring, girls do it worse if not as much as guys do, excluding the public staring in bazaars which seems to be a chichora monopoly. But at events, school, work etc it is way too much. I have dealt with it and it's annoying as hell.