Re: Men who do housework may get more sex
Please. What I put out is my personal mam-o-laa, and he need not worry about angels cursing me hand on hips and other hand thru hair with pout
Re: Men who do housework may get more sex
it was a common tradition in pakistan, good looking maids get sex very often. From the boys in the house. Its an open secret.
This comes from Mr. Jihad superstar in religion and pol forum.
I didn't think you could fall any further in my opinion of you, but...I suppose there is no end to how far you can go.
Re: Men who do housework may get more sex
Actually there are hadith's that say otherwise. Responsibility is upon the man. He can ask her if she wants to take care of those responsibilities, but if she says no, he either has to do it himself or find help. It was quite customary in that period of time for Arabs to hire people for household work or keep slaves, and therefore, the wife of the household often didn't do housework (in more wealthy-middle class families). This isn't much removed from what you see in Pakistan currently, for example.
Bottom line is that a woman can't be forced or EXPECTED to do housework. And neither is a man, but if his wife is not willing and neither is he, then the next option would be to find a maid or man servant.
and what about poor families? or was islam made for wealthy midle class families? if one cant afford a maid, then the dude works all day since women did not work much (and per some other hadeeth that they should not..the hadeeth used by your pals taleban for example) so thety just lounge around, so nothing and there is no responsibility?
the issue is that haqooq al ibaad comes into play there, and this would be a complete violation of haqooq al ibaad.
^^ There are hadith's that mentioned that wife would be cursed from angles, all night long, if she goes to bed refusing her husband's demand of sex.
Les not get into hadith's way too much unless we really want to follow them
or the one which allows men to beat women. or that talks about women doing hijab...
as TLK said..lets nto get into them way too much :) it may just backfire
islam is a common sense religion
Re: Men who do housework may get more sex
This comes from Mr. Jihad superstar in religion and pol forum.
I didn't think you could fall any further in my opinion of you, but...I suppose there is no end to how far you can go.
phir nezry karam hum per??
Re: Men who do housework may get more sex
This comes from Mr. Jihad superstar in religion and pol forum. I didn't think you could fall any further in my opinion of you, but...I suppose there is no end to how far you can go.
I don't If I should laugh or If I should take it seriously.
I mean you are very smart, but why you have to be so stuck up all the time??
1-I don't go into forums I use new post button, what ever I have interest in I pick up that thread and post. Don't want to hero in any forum. Since any one can go in to any forum to see my ture self.
2-Why I am being low???? Is every one on cnn/bbc low too? because they first time told you Bill Clinton was having an affair with Monica.
You guys haven't lived in paksitan so you don't know certain things about it. I happen to be the first person who told you that maid thing... thats about it!!!!!!!
I could also tell you people rob people in pakistan, does that make me a robber????
Or I could tell you I have visited jails twice.Iinterview dozens of people. If I tell you their stories. What would that make me????? a criminal???
You know what, I have spoken to murderers I spoke to the guy who was accused/jailed for having SEX WITH DEAD BODY. interesting??? what would that make me ??? according to your amreekan-brain?? potential serial killer???
PCG you really need to losen up some times. I don't expect a smart person like your self to judge people on predefined-Amreekan standards.
All I want to say is I know pakistan 100 times better on ANY level. then you could ever dream of.
You can ask me question to get insight on things---------
**OR keeping you amreekan tradition by demonizing me. Cuz I am paki muslim.. most unwanted existence.(according to your amreekan media)
God I love Canada!! no self hating desis here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Men who do housework may get more sex
wow, lets not argue. in other news... i didnt know such kinds of things happened anywhere in the world. why on earth would u wanna sleep with ur maid? wouldnt u be scared that she would tell someone? why wouldnt u just grab a prostitute off the road so that chances of anyone finding out would be slim?
Re: Men who do housework may get more sex
wow, lets not argue. in other news... i didnt know such kinds of things happened anywhere in the world. why on earth would u wanna sleep with ur maid? wouldnt u be scared that she would tell someone? why wouldnt u just grab a prostitute off the road so that chances of anyone finding out would be slim?
yeah well except for the doctors and nurses at the std clinic...
Re: Men who do housework may get more sex
Vacuuming sucks. 