men raping daughters

[Umer]

Re: men raping daughters

@fuzzypeach

I feel it’s absolutely ridiculous and sad that you think giving an 8 year old girl been given a shower by her father is normal. It is different perceptions.
I feel that it is indecent and not necessary.
My husband relayed that he would never bathe or change our daughter. I haven’t help shower my boys since they were five, my husband does. Does this make me a less loving mother or him father, no way. There should be a line.
I’m amazed at how people here think its normal.

90% of the time my wife would change the diapers of our kids (1 son/2 daughters). But I have also changed their nappies every now and then. Nothing unusual about that.

When it comes to helping the kids with a bath then it’s more like 99% wife/1% me. But again there is nothing unusual about me helping my daughters take a bath either. Once they are 9 or 10 they shouldn’t need any help for taking a bath anyway.

I feel it is ridiculous to accuse someone of being perverse when he is helping his 8-year old daughter with a bath. That you would even think he had bad intentions is just sick.