Re: men raping daughters
I don’t think there is anything wrong with the topic itself. As Deeba mentioned earlier…it’s not that more men are raping or abusing their daughters or other children…it’s just that this is being reported more to the authorities.
I call is sexual abuse where something sexual is being done in order to obtain pleasure and/or gain control over the child. It can be anything from watching sexual videos/pics…touching…talking about sexual “stuff”…all the way to sex. There is a perverse intent behind the actions.
One of my husband’s co-worker was diagnosed with breast cancer a few months ago and currently is going through chemo/radiation. Due to her condition, these days her husband does pretty much everything for their 2 daughters…approx. 5 and 7…including bathing, helping them get dressed, putting them in bed etc. Due to the stress, the 5 year old has recently started wetting the bed at night. Guess who changes her sheets and helps her change her clothes? The dad. I have a neighbor who’s a single dad of a 12 year old girl. Last year the girl suffered a sports injury and ended up with a broken arm. Since its just her and her dad in the house…guess who helped her take showers and even get dressed? Her dad.
Yes, SOME men have perverse agendas for doing things like giving their daughters a bath. But NOT ALL men are like that! Each situation should be judged individually. I have no idea what on earth gave you the idea the every-single-father in this planet is having sexual thoughts or a sexual attraction towards their daughters just b/c he is helping her take a bath.
I actually find it pretty sad that you have such a low opinion of men.