I can’t believe I’m going to take this stance, but I don’t think most of the guys hanging out here in Life1 are pigs. I think they really take interest in what women think, and want to pick up advice on how to make things work (in current/future relationship). Some are in the market and are looking, yes - I wouldn’t call them pervs or charmers, but I think the reason why THOSE guys visit this forum is to get an idea of what the mindset is out there so they know what they’re looking for when they go on a rishta hunt.
Also, its really helpful to hear stories of how things did not work or did work, to get an idea of what you should/should not do in a relationship.
If my husband visits this forum or not, I could care less because its his choice what he wants to do with his time, but I wouldn’t knock down a guy for visiting this place. Its not that you’re more manly if you choose not to listen to women’s life stories.
What? OMG.. Did I wake up being HIGH? omg omg LOL
Correction; men are pigs.
TO OP:
Shame on you. Your husband must be those close minded men who are careless what goes on in the home (notice how i made an assumption? just like you did! :p) WE men who post here want to give you gossipy women a reality check!