Men dont cry

Why?

Why do mom/sister/wife attach such stigma to son/brother/husband and then they complain that men are stone heart-ed?

Men do feel like crying at times. Please don’t tell them that real men don’t cry. Provide them your shoulder. Let it flush out.

That’s all folks!


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Na na.. mera munna rote nai..

chalo aao idhar .. let me give u a huggie..


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I could use a good cry one of these days. It’s been a while since I let those tears out.

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^ just watch Misbah bat. Problem solved.

Thank you.

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I don’t think munna has diarrhea. Or does he?

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That just reminded me a shair…

Jo aake ruke daaman pe ‘saba’ woh ashk nahi hai, paani hai
Jo ashk na jhlake aankhon se, un askho ki keemat hoti hai

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nothing wrong with men crying. and i think the new generation don’t see any stigma attached to it like the older generations.
At my sis wedding, it was actually my father and my brother who cried hard at the time of her rukhsati whereas my mom was so calm.
i have seen some sons crying like anything on passing away of their mothers

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I can’t find the link to post here, an Indian ad is made to stop abuse against women where the main message of the ad is “Boys don’t cry, Kaash hum yeh sikhate ke larke rulate nahin hain”
very beautiful message indeed.

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Nothing wrong with men crying. They usually don’t in front of women.. at least non cry in front of me but that just may be because i lack sympathy on most days. lol

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oh yes they do :slight_smile:

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yes they do but not in public.

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Its not just men, big girls dont cry either:biggthumb:

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Now if a woman sees her husband, father, brother (as head of the household) cry every now and then - what will be her assessment of his strength to face the big bad world?

Don’t women want comfort in the ability of their men to be caretakers and problemsolvers?

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it takes like a HUGE life changing heart breaking, FIRST TIME event for me to cry. I cant cry.

women cry when thinking is hard, day is going bad, when they feel nervous or uncomfortable, or simply anxious, or when its too cold or too hot, or too boring, or something is shocking or disappointing…i dont get it most of the time anyways

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Some of us don’t cry at all either. Not all women are softies or like to express emotions. Don’t generalize, ya big meanie.

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by ‘some’ do you mean the % of women who have already passed away into Eternal Bliss?

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The % of women sane enough to stay away from you. :slight_smile:

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clearly, youre not one of them :wink:

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lol. i’m just passing by.

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ummm .
pass into the Eternal Bliss plz