Re: Men can be SOOOO clueless
There is no need to feel upset about it, because you never took any wrong step anywhere. HE is the one who has surprised you with such a clueless step, so give him a silent treatment. No need to look worried and conscious about this situation, just remain calm, silent and busy in your work. Till the time he doesn't come to you initiating to discuss this matter with you with an apology, just remain reserve with no chit chat and extra talk. Let your attitude convey to him that he has not only been silly in his thoughts and actions but also made a mistake by considering you silly for getting upset on this matter. Just develop this attitude of "LEAVE ME ALONE" for some time while remaining polite and responsible of your duties at the same time. No need to show to him that you are interested in his email talks and talks about her responses. He should get this strong message from your attitude that you wont tolerate such stuff at any cost in future. No eating with him, no sitting with him,...etc. Just ignore him by keeping your self busy with the kids. It is HE who has to pay the cost of this stupidity not YOU!
The key is to NEVER show to him that you are jealous of that girl. He should realize that this silliness on his part would increase distance between you and him. Don't worry, he can't leave you because you are mother of his children, if he doesn't care about this relationship of children in future, then he is not worth it.