Re: men are totally wierd
Brute, I have like you wouldn't believe. I've developed quite a thick skin, and don't let people walk all over me. I like to make it clear that its all or nothing. (I saw photos of you from a recent wedding you attended in Khi :D)
Not to worry though folks, I have not had illicit relationships with anyone - I'm speaking more on an emotional level, and it's not something I've been through recently - just a general observation through experiences over the years.
Zalim Wadera - I totally agree. Do you have any eligible single friends?
PCG, if it was based on friendship to begin with then you're right, it is harder to end things completely. But when it started out as a flirtation and the guy's like, ' i really really like you, can't we be friends' you tend to wonder what hes been smoking.
Mad Scientist, yes if the liking was just a 1-way thing then it is totally possible to be friends,
LI - yes please do spill the beans!
parissenoor, dont worry yaar. I have no boyfriends, i dont believe in pre-marital affairs.
Aj, Id say hi howzit, but no not friends as in talk regularly etc.
Actually I dont even really believe anymore in having guys as tight friends. ive been slowly letting go of male acquaintances ... im not 18 anymore and it doesnt present a good image.
lollypop man, most desi women, whenever encountering another eligible desi man, is always thinking of marriage!! and thats how it is, and it will never change!
paindoo, well if girls do that then it means they didnt really like the guy to begin with. with guys, even if theyre not going to end up with the girl, they still want to be friends with her, see her all the time etc. i dont understand it.