look men hate that women are so indecisive about stuff, plus most of the time men really are laid back, so when an ultimatum is given they are basically given 2 mutually exclusive options by the woman. makes our job easier..of all the dynamically changing combinations and permutations of what we are expected to do, two clear distinct choices are given.
so things like, either you come to fulanas bhais mehndi, or you are not getting anything to eat..
I would take it as cool, so I dont have to go to this mehndi thing, and that means I dont get a meal at home so I will order pizza and wings or go grab a bite to eat or call the fellas to meet up at some kebab tikka joint.
then women get angry and stuff..like i mean u gave me 2 options, I just picked one. :D
What if the stakes were higher?
what if it's not just food but something you enjoy doing like I will cut off the subcription to ESPN - then what?