with the exception of faizy, everyone in this thread is sick :yukh:
so i dont want your advice hence i have deleted the original post
faizy ur the only person i will say thanks to 
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after faisal's reply, i am scared to even remotely mention L.I.G (Let It Go)
but again .. all factors hint towards it..
i will still say to give it some time .. give it a break, have a week or two off without seeing each other.. and then try calling again
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Mr A and Mr B should stop being gay. This is the unmanliest friendship I've ever seen. Men don't behave like this, period. They don't care if their best friend has another best friend. Men don't do this kind of drama. Boys might, but MEN don't. What you've described above is just bizarre.
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Agreed.
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but again .. all factors hint towards it..
i will still say to give it some time .. give it a break, have a week or two off without seeing each other.. and then try calling again
thats what Mr A wanted to do cuz he said his old friend has changed...but i suggested he give it one more try....cuz i really dont like seeing friendships break up
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its not that he is jealous that he has another friend....its just the B doesnt like it when he goes somewhere with A and the shia friend is also with them. i.e. if they go out to eat, B doesnt like it when the shia guy is also there....simply because he is shia. he wouldnt mind if any of A's other friends were there
so id say its just a matter of religion....B cant stand shias and doesnt want to be friends with anyone who has shia as a friend cuz he doesnt like hanging out with shias
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sometimes frienships break apart, belive it or not, cuz one person was putting TOO Much effort into it.. which all they had to do was give it some time..
been there, done that :-) was stunned
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i told A to get in contact with one of B’s friends and try and sort if out 2moro by talking to B. did i give the wrong advice? 
should I stop A from doing that or let him contact B through another friend?
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B needs to jump off a cliff for being such a bigoted b*tch.
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a should refrain from any contact.. ANY
give it a two week time.. resume casual-calls if possible..
soemtimes it IS best to let it go :-)
i've seen friends breaking apart on stupidier things than shia-sunny
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Guys don't talk issues out. We refrain from contact for a couple of weeks, then resume contact and pretend that nothing ever happened.
Trying to get guys to handle situation like girls, and girls to handle situations like guys, is unrealistic and risks making things worse. Part of accepting gender diversity is recognising that we have different mindsets and avoiding forcing one gender to act as per the mindset of another.
Talking would be perfect if A and B were girls. They are, however, guys instead. If they talk nothing will result but an ego clash, a verbal fight, and quite possibly pushing and shoving and an exchange of blows.
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Make them watch Brokeback Mountain together.
You could have given them more interesting names. I would have gone for Mr Blonde, Mr Pink, Mr Orange, Mr White.
agreed!..a case of immaturity.Re: Men and Friendships
somehow i am sensing both A and B or atleast one is from karachi:bummer:
no wait,.. they grew up together?
hmmmm. brokeback mountain sounds KOOOL! whistles in saluting :k:
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totally agree.
:desimunda:
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Just checking if my pictures attached.
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Oh cmon, it's one of those things you need leave to sort it out by itself, especially after having tried *enough.
*Really if a grown man can be immature enough to first point out that he doesn't like a's - a life long buddy's - friend cos of his religion and after having announced that still acts like a spoilt 11 year old, he seriously needs to be left alone, if only so he may think over his behaviour. And no, having mr.c as an instigator is not an excuse for mr.b.
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Again B shud just jump off a cliff
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i agree!