Re: Men and fantasies -- yuck!
DH, you need to find the courage and tell his wife. This kind of sick relationship must be stopped. You must be straightforward and let her know, if she is dear to you and you care about her, than you must be honest and truthful. No beating around the bush, fill her in on all the details so she can take care of the sicko herself. As far as the girl is concerned, she needs to see a good psychologist/therapist.