…do you sometimes feel that some memories are so special and yet so bitter…that you think of people that were in your life before and now they are not there…they are living happily somewhere else with someone else..but u still think of them sometimes wondering what departed your ways and what would have happened if you still were sharing the same path…
I know whatever happens is a blessing from Allah and one should be happy for what one has and what has left.
Bass yaadein reh jaati…
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These memories haunt you for a very long time (maybe forever) and it is impossible to let them go. You have a choice to either live in the past and be miserable, or get up and move on. The only thing that keeps you strong is to think how can someone be so selfish and leave you knowing how much you love him/her. But since love is blind, your emotions eventually get to you.
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yeah I know...Alhamdulillah I am very happy and content with my life now. I dont think i have ever been this happy before.
byt still the memories are haunting sometimes leaving me bitter and sad....its strange how we humans can be so ambivalent in our lives....
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Memories of loved ones are always dear to us. It is hard to go through them and just to contemplate "what would have happen?" is another bitter phase of our life. Think of it as a dream that was not be realized. Think of it as a stepping stone of what you are today. Think of it as yours and something that will always remain with you. Cherish it like a scar, mole and inury. Be thankful that you got out of it because sometimes others can not.
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Memories of loved ones are always dear to us. It is hard to go through them and just to contemplate "what would have happen?" is another bitter phase of our life. Think of it as a dream that was not be realized. Think of it as a stepping stone of what you are today. Think of it as yours and something that will always remain with you. Cherish it like a scar, mole and inury. Be thankful that you got out of it because sometimes others can not.
You've put is so beauitfully:)
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I've always said, even good memories are bittersweet and painful b/c they'll never come bak
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but then you go on and make new memories! and thanks to digital cameras and video recorders, you can hold on to anything you want! :)
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no, technology has nothing to do w/ it
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memories are horrible things :-(
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cherish the happy memories and learn from the bad ones and once in a while if u need talk to someone about it u never know u might get an awesome advise to nake it better but best of all keep urself busy in other things, atleast this is how i deal wid it.