Should the girl ever travel to meet the guy for the first time?
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Toss a coin.
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If its more convenient for whatever reason, sure.
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why not ? oh wait, just because she is a girl … at one point girls say, treat us equally and when it comes to other things, they think 10 times before doing anything like that.
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naa. real guy would pay for the ticket. if not, he is cheap, not worth u.
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. If it’s more convenient for you, you should do it, if it’s easier for him, he should.
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No. She should not.
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If guys stop judging girls and calling them to forward, too modern for making the first move then they would stop having to rethink it?
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I’m a guy, and I don’t think a girl should be traveling alone to unfamiliar territory to meet a guy for the first time. The guy should come visit, put the responsibility on him to see how serious he is. If he is truly into you, he will find a way and make it happen. And make sure to meet in a public place of your choosing.
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Nothing wrong with making the first move as long as the girl does it in a decent way and doesn’t come off too strong. There is an art to it that some girls dont understand. If you come across too strong the guy will think “damn shes slutty she must do this with all guys” he will either back off or if he just wants to fool around he will think youre easy and youll likely get the wrong types of guys this way, while if you put up brick walls then the guy will just lose interest and give up and youll end up losing some good guys this way. Needs to be the right amount of interest and not coming off easy. The key is to be first and foremost selective. Don’t do it with every guy you see, doesn’t matter how good looking or charming he seems. Try to do your due diligence in advance before proceeding. The second key part is to throw out subtle signs that youre interested (I know I know I’m always stressing subtlety…it truly is classy). This is how you should handling your first move, it effectively conveys you’re interested while providing him a clear opportunity for him to then take the lead and take the interaction to the next level.
I dont think I have ever made the first move or approached a girl not because I’m shy but because I’m selective and borderline lazy to do small talk with girls I’m not interested in. So im talking from my own experience on what I liked and what turned me off when a girl approached me and conveyed interest. The thing is traditionally most girls who did make the first move would often come off too strong or weren’t usually decent classy girls they’d be girls who go around the block lol, so can’t blame us for having such initial thoughts 
(girls have same initial reactions with guys, wonder if he’s a player or flirts with every girl like this)
If the girl has an overall decent character she has nothing to worry about for initiating the convo or conveying interest first, guy wouldn’t be able to judge her in a negative way even if he tried!
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oh, wait..i thought this thread was like girls going to the guys house first with their families. lol..total misunderstanding. Nah, if the girl is on her own then probably not such a good idea. Either take someone along with you or let him come meet you if it’s a one-on-one thing.
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nope, should be guy’s responsibility.
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Nah.
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:k:
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so the girls hate and are afraid of marrying such people. these guys aren’t even in their list because of their judging nature and yet, they care about them that what if they judge me for doing something. that bizarre.
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Meet him half way, or make him come to you unless he’s broke or cheap and you have no other choice (it’s a no anyway) but if you insisted on going to him, there’s no debate but if this thirsty guy is like;
Mehra gur bought bura hai aap aarjo (my Urdu is bad and if anyone understands that I owe you a ice cream) this would be a sign of red flags.
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Mera ghar bahot burra hai, aap aajao
Where’s my ice cream
#noicecreamforyou](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=noicecreamforyou)
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Lol. If we ever cross paths. Ice cream is on me 
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What if paths don’t cross. And the two of you walk past each other with at least a foot space between your paths at the instant you walk past each other.
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That’ll only happen during local time.