Re: meddling relatives
Let the relatives say whatever they want. If they’re talking to you directly, either change the topic or if possible, make an excuse, get up and walk away. Their opinions are worthless in this situation. They did not live YOUR life in Pakistani. They did not live in that house with you MIL. And next time they mention Pakistani being stable…ask them why THEY aren’t moving back if life is so great there.
You and your husband made this decision as a couple for your children. Your relatives have 0 responsibility when it comes to your kids. They’re not thinking about your kids safety, future etc. when making these comments. Its natural to feel sad because you’re away from your husband but remember this separation is not permanent. Stay strong and don’t allow others to put doubts in your mind about something that both you AND your husband decided jointly.