What do you think you might have done wrong while being in different relationships or related to others in general life?
Lets have some confessions if you can take the dare. Everybody makes mistakes. Nothing wrong in realization and open acceptance.
To begin, I can accept that I didnt pay attention to some of the people who approached me. It was wrong of me. If i have to go back I would probably give them fair chance.
Why do think about them now?
Sometimes your biggest mistake is that you stuck around longer with that person longer than you should have; that you didn’t leave sooner when red flags were staring you in the face.
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Sometimes your biggest mistake is that you stuck around longer with that person longer than you should have; that you didn’t leave sooner when red flags were staring you in the face.
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As Socrates said, a life not re examined is a life not worth living, our biggest failing is to under or over estimate our worth, someone might be a 3, thinking they are a 6 and spending all their lives pursuing a 7 and 8 and crapping on 3s and 4s and than end up all alone and misreable. Relationships are an exchange of value, we should look hard and fast at ourselves and analyse what we have to offer and what we can expect to get back in return.
^ Aaawnn, having an introspective moment there? Not in the least bit surprised at your expertise on being a 3, though I’d still say you’re being generous with yourself.
Tsk, tsk, you are hardly alone and miserable. Your prolific imagination has served you well for you are never short of funds, admiration, or spouses.
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^ Aaawnn, having an introspective moment there? Not in the least bit surprised at your expertise on being a 3, though I’d still say you’re being generous with yourself.
Tsk, tsk, you are hardly alone and miserable. Your prolific imagination has served you well for you are never short of funds, admiration, or spouses.
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Looks are not the only critereon, people who are not that gifted with best genes can workout, dress nice, learn to be interesting, aquire some great skills to add value, if one is overmarried than you have to learn to appreciate your spouse a lot. This Pak man imported a beautiful girl. 35 years his younger and would treat her like a dog and soon ended up losing everythhing as she got him arrested.
Yes I did make a lot of mistakes and this is just how life is and we got to take it with a grain of salt and learn to be happy. Getting out of comfort zone is hard. I feel my first wife is where my comfort zone is, I find hard to relate to uber rich class like my second wife. Money really does nothing for me. I like wilderness and roughing it.
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Why do think about them now?
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Its not about them at all.
Its about you, yourself. Not that you are literally crying over them. You are making sure to note things you could have done better only so if you are in a similar scenario you dont blow it again.
And its about all kind of relationships
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Sometimes your biggest mistake is that you stuck around longer with that person longer than you should have; that you didn’t leave sooner when red flags were staring you in the face.
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Things we all do, literally all of us. If you think more its the “hope” that makes us put our faith in the other person. Looking for possibility that things may end up good for us
NO! People Do Not Bother me! …
Non culpa mea**…
BUT I have a Bone to Pick with Machines I have bad encounters with…**
**Had encounters with Trucks and Cars…
Ah Yes also a young Water Buffalo Calf I was asked to untie it and bring to its Mother for feeding…He Flipped me up in the air like an Acrobat!..
Thankless Bratt!
Memories of Village Life!..
**
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What do you think you might have done wrong while being in different relationships or related to others in general life?
Lets have some confessions if you can take the dare. Everybody makes mistakes. Nothing wrong in realization and open acceptance.
To begin, I can accept that I didn’t pay attention to some of the people who approached me. It was wrong of me. If i have to go back I would probably give them fair chance.
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Here are my confessions:
More confessions on the way..
1- I sabotaged a close friend’s career snd stole his job once
2- I have cheated on my wife
3- I sometimes talk derogatory about some patients, you know the heart-sink types.
4- My brother asked me for a loan that i could but i didn’t.
5- I’m not religious and have not prayed for a long time.
And this list is not exhaustive.
Was a bully in high-school, I am not proud of that. If I could apologize to every single person that I bullied in high school, I would. And to some of them that I met later on in life, I did apologize.
Wish I didn't give hell to my parents growing up.
I owe someone such a small amount of money that I've never gotten around to returning them back. Also, it doesn't help the fact that I've lost contact with them.
I was once involved in a hit-and-run with a cab driver, something I still regret to this day, considering how tough life can be for them.
I once punched a man for his sexual preference, something that I am not proud of.
I have a big fear of blood which most people couldn’t understand. Even doctors/nurses don’t believe me at first. A few very close people have asked me for blood in critical situations and I regretfully refused, lied or made some lame excuse.
The first one is interesting. Just curious how you keeping boundries now
It takes a real person to confess some of the things in your list. Hats off to you. To err is human, to forgive divine
Looks like a lot of anger? how are you doing with it now? Sorry I am not judging at all, just asking.
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Looks like a lot of anger? how are you doing with it now? Sorry I am not judging at all, just asking.
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I was the definition of a rebellious teenager, I guess.
And its completely ok. All teenagers struggle with different things. As long as you can come out of it.
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The first one is interesting. Just curious how you keeping boundries now
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Sup HB! The way to keep boundaries is to politely telling ppl that they can’t just have walk in the park with ya! And be firm with ya’re wants and needs.
Yes but is it that easy? What is your mashwara for those who dont find enough dare to say and do this?