coming on GS is affecting my married life.
any suggestions plz
PS: For those who suggest “quit” in every post
No i can’t leave GS
And no i can’t leave my husband as well
So anyother suggestion…
D A ki yad aa gaee 
Re: Me,my husband and GS
Get on GS when he is not around …and tell him he will always remain your first baby … 
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yea he should be in FBI...he always finds out :)
where were u CB havn't seen u for a while
D A ki yad aa gaee :(
actually this post is influenced by her post.anyways my prob is way more serious than hers
Re: Me,my husband and GS
- Make him a member also. His nick can be Shabrook. :@:
or
Just don't log on when he's around.
actually this post is influenced by her post.anyways my prob is way more serious than hers
ask him what exactly his problem is ?? using NET??or he feels like u r ignoring him when u r on internet??
- Make him a member also. His nick can be Shabrook. :@:
or
Just don't log on when he's around.
is there a mod vacancy available?
wat Shabrook means?
ask him what exactly his problem is ?? using NET??or he feels like u r ignoring him when u r on internet??
he never says.Kinz is it possible hes jealous of GS...ha haiy
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i picked up from your post that you said your hubby doesn't pay as much attention to you as you w'd like. Problem is not the gs, it's much deeper
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Sometimes chatting online can become addicting. You have to ask yourself WHY you keep logging on to GS, is it filling some kind of void? Are you here to speak to someone (or a couple of someones?) Are you here to gain information for something (i.e. religion, Wedding, travel, etc)? And if you are here to gain insight or information, will you visit less frequently once your needs have been attended to? The first step, I believe is to identify what it is that is keeping you logged on, and logged on for so long. Be honest with yourself.
A lot of people come online to talk because they otherwise lack this sort of intimacy in their personal life. Is there is a possibility that, in your real life, you don't have anyone who you can connect with in the way that you connect with people online?
It is possible to be have real and fulfilling relationships with people online, but it cannot substitute for real life relationships. This is a strange phenomenon that is occurring throughout the world, where people are developing ulterior lives behind their computer screens. I am not saying that this is your case, but it is something to consider.
The key here is balance. If you have a happy and balanced real life, you should be able to fit in sometime for the virtual world without problem. Some of us are more successful at it than others, but you've got to be proactive about trying to make it happen.
Also, once you identify what it is that is attracting you to the online world so often, share it with your husband. He probably feels threatened by your virtual relationships.
Good luck!
i picked up from your post that you said your hubby doesn't pay as much attention to you as you w'd like. Problem is not the gs, it's much deeper
yea go on.i'm all ears..r u a pyschiatrist.
encourage your husband to become a member of GS. He’ll understand the addiction. And then you might have to pull him away from GS. Flirt with him on GS. Or…make a multinick and play pranks on him if he becomes a member. Kidding. So many possibilities. LOL:)
Somehowcollide and Enya have made good points. Do some adjusting with your time. Use the time that you usually spend on Gupshup…with your husband instead. Go out and watch a movie. Go eat a favorite restaurant. Go for a walk. Cook together. Spend time flirting and talking to each other. He could be feeling left out or ignored. And many people don’t feel comfortable admitting that they are feeling ignored because they think it makes them look “weak”…a pride issue. So, try making adjustments in your schedule and include him in activities or make plans together. InshaAllah that will help.
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how exactly is it affecting your married life?
i mean coming online to GS is more important??? jeez what kind of wife are you?
is there a mod vacancy available? wat Shabrook means?
It just rhymes with your nick. As far as the vacancies go, hmmm, I'm not sure.
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Mabrook.....means mubarak.
Shab....means "raat" in urdu.
So, Shabrook means mubarak raat.
To tell you the truth, I have no idea. LOL!
how exactly is it affecting your married life? i mean coming online to GS is more important??? jeez what kind of wife are you?
u r making me depressed now.does coming here=bad wife :(
Re: Me,my husband and GS
Mabrook, there are MANYYYYYYYYYYYYYY married women and married men on this website. That doesn’t mean they are all bad spouses.
I guess we don’t know how serious your relationship is being affected by GS. If your husband is feeling left out, then you definitely need to figure out when are good and bad times for you to be on, or if you husband just doesn’t like GS, you could ask him to join and check out the quality threads on the forum (refer to my posts :halo:) that way he’ll see this place isn’t all that crazy 
And if he really wants you to stay out, then maybe you should take a break. It’s just like any other activity which can take time from your life if you don’t find the right balance.
encourage your husband to become a member of GS. He'll understand the addiction. And then you might have to pull him away from GS. Flirt with him on GS. Or.......make a multinick and play pranks on him if he becomes a member. Kidding. So many possibilities. LOL:)
Somehowcollide and Enya have made good points. Do some adjusting with your time. Use the time that you usually spend on Gupshup.....with your husband instead. Go out and watch a movie. Go eat a favorite restaurant. Go for a walk. Cook together. Spend time flirting and talking to each other. He could be feeling left out or ignored. And many people don't feel comfortable admitting that they are feeling ignored because they think it makes them look "weak"......a pride issue. So, try making adjustments in your schedule and include him in activities or make plans together. InshaAllah that will help.
RV i truly dunno wats the big deal coz yes we spent lots of time with each other n with family.i try finishing as much housework as possible b4 going to bed n get busy the moment i wake up.every weekend or two we invite a family over to our house.if i'm not on net then he is.i don't call friends that often when hes around.i don't chat online.i don't even watch tv or those saas bahu serials anymore.hes not ignored.hes not even a bossy fellow otherwise.still he doesn't want me to get engaged in anything.n my stance is when all i do is pop on GS every now n then for few mins n rest of the day i'm all work wats the issue?
yes seriously i need a life.