Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
NOT ! :nono: Bad advice. 
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
Dekhein aap. How long have you two been together for? Kuch baatain hoti hain jo ek insan apne lover/partner se bhi nahi share karta. Kuch aisi habits or addatain jo insan apne aap se rakhta hai. For example if he watches gay porn and likes it, why would he tell you that? Is tarah tou aap us ke bare mai judgement bana leinge like you have now?? Agar us ko pasand hai gay stories parhna and talking to other people on FB then let him be.
TRUST ME. If you two have so called 'love' between you right now, with your behaviour you are going to lose him permanently soon enough if you don't get rid of your insecurity and extreme obsessive level of possessiveness. Everyone in any kind of 'ship' be it friendship or relationship, needs space and they don't want their partner, best friend, friend to be of the controlling kind. You have to trust him. Thora sa tou trust you can** build right? **Pehle baat agar woh aap se committed hai, tou woh cheat nahi karreyga. Aap ko darne ki zaroorat nahi hai. He is only human being. He can't just talk to you. He needs to have friends. Agar woh kabhi committed hi nahi tha, not have same attachment level to you, then let him cheat and go away. Koi aur mil jayega aapko.
Well usnay mujhay bad mai kiun bataya he had fake account tooo ? usay phelay he bata dena chaye tha tu mai thori kuch kheta bad mai batya tab zayada insecure hugaya hun , wesay i know his family friends relatives every thing related to him
YES!!!
The problem is with you so, you're insecure and you're taking possessiveness to a freaky level.
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
I think you should ask your local molvi for advice.
Dont tell him that. Molvi masjid ke chat pe ulta latka dega
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
I think you should ask your local molvi for advice.
Molvi ne masjid mein elaan krwa dena hai phr
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
Also I have read that most gay men especially the young ones are into it for the physcial aspect, not for long-term committment.
You should beware.
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
Dekhein aap. How long have you two been together for? Kuch baatain hoti hain jo ek insan apne lover/partner se bhi nahi share karta. Kuch aisi habits or addatain jo insan apne aap se rakhta hai. For example if he watches gay porn and likes it, why would he tell you that? Is tarah tou aap us ke bare mai judgement bana leinge like you have now?? Agar us ko pasand hai gay stories parhna and talking to other people on FB then let him be.
TRUST ME. If you two have so called 'love' between you right now, with your behaviour you are going to lose him permanently soon enough if you don't get rid of your insecurity and extreme obsessive level of possessiveness. Everyone in any kind of 'ship' be it friendship or relationship, needs space and they don't want their partner, best friend, friend to be of the controlling kind. You have to trust him. Thora sa tou trust you can** build right? **Pehle baat agar woh aap se committed hai, tou woh cheat nahi karreyga. Aap ko darne ki zaroorat nahi hai. He is only human being. He can't just talk to you. He needs to have friends. Agar woh kabhi committed hi nahi tha, not have same attachment level to you, then let him cheat and go away. Koi aur mil jayega aapko.
YES!!!
Sis you are right , we are comitted from last 5 years and from very first day we just meet and have some love talkies, and uskay pass meri choice k ilawa koi shoes acesories clothes kuch bhi nahi hay and same with me, and i do cook for him some time , sara din hum movies sath dekhtay hian and even din rat restaurants sath jatay hian so its not about only friendship ,
mujhy aur koi masla nahi hay i just want wo kise bhi gay say bat keray tu atleast mujhay bataye werna mai bhut sensitive hujata hun usay laker :( and pora din pora week kharab hujata hay..
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
Guys can we not make jokes that are offensive or hurtful to the OP. Thanks. :(
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
cheat to wo mer ker bhi nahi keray ga i do trust him more then my self but kuch batayen hila deten hain yar ! may be am i expecting more?
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
Dont tell him that. Molvi masjid ke chat pe ulta latka dega
hahaha tum log bhi na kasam say :P
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
Also I have read that most gay men especially the young ones are into it for the physcial aspect, not for long-term committment. You should beware.
thats a main reason , gays ajj kal k achay nahi hian kahin usay bhela phusla na laien :(
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gays ajj kal k achay nahi hian
Sahi kaha. hamaray zamany ke gays itne shareef thay, har ghair mard ko bhai samajhte thay
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
Listen in any relationship, it is natural to feel jealous and possessive. You need to feel those, to feel the connection, attachment and love. BUT don't go overboard with the jealousy and obsessiveness. You 'have' to give space. Meri baat sun lein aap, us ko agar jitna tang karreinge is mamle ko lekar woh utna ap se dour jayega and annoy hoga. Har insan ko thori space chahiye hoti hai warna ghuten feel hoti hai. Itna sensitive nahi hote and kisi bhi relationship ko dil ka rog nahi banate warna ansoun ke siwa kuch nahi likha hua hai. If you are saying ke you don't want him to talk to any other gay, then that's you controlling him and aisa nahi hosakta. Woh apka slave nahi hai ke he will listen to you, only talk to you etc. He has his own identity and personality. So what if he talks to other gays. At the end of the day he spends time with you right? He comes back to you right? Masla kya hai phir.
Sis you are right , we are comitted from last 5 years and from very first day we just meet and have some love talkies, and uskay pass meri choice k ilawa koi shoes acesories clothes kuch bhi nahi hay and same with me, and i do cook for him some time , sara din hum movies sath dekhtay hian and even din rat restaurants sath jatay hian so its not about only friendship , mujhy aur koi masla nahi hay i just want wo kise bhi gay say bat keray tu atleast mujhay bataye werna mai bhut sensitive hujata hun usay laker :( and pora din pora week kharab hujata hay..
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
Why don't you talk to him about this? Where does he see this relationship going?
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
:emmy ab mazak kon ura rha hai 
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
Sis you are right , we are comitted from last 5 years and from very first day we just meet and have some love talkies, and uskay pass meri choice k ilawa koi shoes acesories clothes kuch bhi nahi hay and same with me, and i do cook for him some time , sara din hum movies sath dekhtay hian and even din rat restaurants sath jatay hian so its not about only friendship , mujhy aur koi masla nahi hay i just want wo kise bhi gay say bat keray tu atleast mujhay bataye werna mai bhut sensitive hujata hun usay laker :( and pora din pora week kharab hujata hay..
How old are you ?
Do you have a job or are you a student ?
Where do you find so much time to spend with him ?
Where do you get all the money for the frequent restaurant-hopping ?
Are your parents rich and give you money ?
Do you watch movies at his home ?
Does he live alone ?
If not, what does his family say about you guys spending so much time together ?
Is your father around ? Does he give you any advice ?
How many brother and sisters do you have ?
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TS, some of the questions are a bit too personal, don't you think?
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
Sahi kaha. hamaray zamany ke gays itne shareef thay, har ghair mard ko bhai samajhte thay
tlk ap bhi na kasam say her bat mai tang khench letay hian !
Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
TS, some of the questions are a bit too personal, don't you think?
For all we know TS is a rishta Uncle but then again that begs more questions