Re: Me and My Boy friend ! (gay)
Listen in any relationship, it is natural to feel jealous and possessive. You need to feel those, to feel the connection, attachment and love. BUT don’t go overboard with the jealousy and obsessiveness. You ‘have’ to give space. Meri baat sun lein aap, us ko agar jitna tang karreinge is mamle ko lekar woh utna ap se dour jayega and annoy hoga. Har insan ko thori space chahiye hoti hai warna ghuten feel hoti hai. Itna sensitive nahi hote and kisi bhi relationship ko dil ka rog nahi banate warna ansoun ke siwa kuch nahi likha hua hai. If you are saying ke you don’t want him to talk to any other gay, then that’s you controlling him and aisa nahi hosakta. Woh apka slave nahi hai ke he will listen to you, only talk to you etc. He has his own identity and personality. So what if he talks to other gays. At the end of the day he spends time with you right? He comes back to you right? Masla kya hai phir.