Re: Maybe it’s just me
BTW the Same applies to boys too…don’t have girlfriends..not allowed to meet girls or have female friends… and i know some guys have this issue too…living out the ‘being in love’ experience or something…
the solution is for parents/society to educate their daughters that the ‘love story’ of a bf/gf as instilled by media conditioning is NOT something really ‘healthy’… somehow the ‘prince charming’ thing is set in their minds early on and i see that it doesn’t leave their head well into adulthood… and i have seen cases where girls did mess up/got used/hurt etc…only because in their hope of getting the fantasy fulfilled they attach themselves too much to a person who is NOT their husband…they put themselves out there completely to a person who is not yet comitted to them… and unfortunately the parents did warn the girls but the belief in ‘love’ causes them to act immature…
the other common issue is…‘when he was a fiance/bf he was good..now he is not’…again…they need to be somehow made aware of the fact that ‘husband’ is different from a bf/fiance…as mentioned by murgi…