…….So let us say, what if a guy and a girl who are in the same age for example 21 and wanted to get married…….
….Do you think it will be a healthy relationship and a balanced one too?....why not
…..Do you think the guy would be in a state of taking such responsibility?...if hez willin to get married then probably yes
….Do you think that their relationship will be the girl wearing the trousers more often than the guy?.....whats wrong with thattttt?
…..Do you think that the guy will still be a flirter and still seeking to have free time with his friends?....chances of him going arrnd increases with his age
….IF you have any other things to add then go ahead……** :D**
its done all wrong.. when u're born .. if u're a girl.. ur mom keeps feeding sunshine up your butt.. that girls are better..
if u're a guy.. ur dad waghaira keep feeding the same thing ..
throughout ur life.. u hit teenage, come to gupshup, fight over this girls boys thing.. ending up getting married, crying to sahelies (if u're a girl) that hubby is this, saas susar is that.. hubby on the other hand complaining that wife is stubborn/control freak this that etc to his friends circle.. coming home, spending life.. having kids.. and then STILL pissed off from that, start teaching the SAME thing to their kids ..
Girls vs Boys again...how original. Let's see how far this thread can go. Natalia, I'd say that, to answer your questions, age 21 seems a tad young to marry and be 'mature'. But then it all depends upon the individual. Sometimes a couple that marries young can grow and mature together and that could create a really strong bond.
Maturity has nothing to do with age or gender. It is all about life experiences. They say, "A man learns the most when he gets burned." Think about it.
…….So let us say, what if a guy and a girl who are in the same age for example 21 and wanted to get married…….
….Do you think it will be a healthy relationship and a balanced one too?....
…..Do you think the guy would be in a state of taking such responsibility?...
hmmmm , I guess such such marriages were pretty common some 20+ 30+ years back among desis , when most of them used to live in joint family/ household , I've few examples among my relatives and all of those turned out to be successful marriages , I guess the outcome varies person to person ....................................................... ........................... i personally think that age difference or lack of it has least to do with the success of marriage.....
I think maturity becomes much less based upon gender as we get older. Little girls do indeed learn faster but only until age 3 to 5. After that, it becomes very individual and much less gender-based.
Think about it. From what I've seen, at college-grad age, most guys are ready to take on responsibility and are looking to settle down. Too many of the gals at this age though, are more looking for good shopping, big careers which they arent really capable of, rich boyfriends/rishtas and good times. I think at a certain point the guys overtake the gals in the maturity dept.
Think about it. From what I've seen, at college-grad age, most guys are ready to take on responsibility and are looking to settle down. Too many of the gals at this age though, are more looking for good shopping, big careers which they arent really capable of, rich boyfriends/rishtas and good times. I think at a certain point the guys overtake the gals in the maturity dept.
First time, I am agreeing with you on something. Looks like an educated and well rounded reply :)
I dont think there would be any problem if the couple is about of same age. However our society is more concern towards the positive age difference (i.e Guy is older) than the similar or negative one. Infact i have seen so much of happy marriages where the guy is even younger than the girl.
Age doesnt matter as long as mutual understanding exists within a couple.