Mature Answers plz- Bed Sheets

Ok, first off…as much as i enjoy all the hilarious comments/jokes/insinuations some of you like to leave on some threads…this time i would like some mature and serious feedback. No going off topic either pretty plzzzz!! Also, would preferably like to hear from the ppl who really ARE married…as they have the same experiences…:halo:

ok, so i know that after having sex a person has to take a shower in order to read Quran or read namaaz etc etc. Thats fine and understandable. But what about this situation. Suppose you had sex the night before…didnt change the sheets…and last night you slept regulary, no sex. In the morning, would you STILL have to take a shower in order to read namaaz, even though u didnt do sex but just slept on the “sexed on” sheets? cuz technically, your clean, right?..and also, i find it VERY inconvenient to change the sheets EVERY time we ‘ehem’…u know? is this wrong, am i supposed to? i mean, i thought once a week or twice a week is good enough to change sheets…:confused:

plzz all u married ladies out there…help a sistaa out! :@:

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you got to go to mosque once in a while.

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You spelled out sex once right in the start, so why for rest of the paragraph are you "s*x" ? I'm sorry its just bothering me, its should be all or nothing.

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i know someone who is in the same predicament, the poor thing has to scrub down everything her or hubby have touched, and is constantly washing her sheets...her hubby wants it that way.
anyways as far as i know you need to change your sheets if you actually get some semen on them, if there is no semen on them then you dont need to clean them.

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:rolleyes:

You couldnt ask your mom or sister or your friend or someone?
Doll face you can’t seriously expect not to start something here.

Why are all your posts revolving around the same topic btw?

this should clarify things for you
Washing Bed Sheets After Intercourse - IslamonLine.net - Ask The Scholar

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You need a crash course on islam.

Its you who need shower. AND hubby needs it(if he was involved in s-x)
If bed sheet did not have any liquid dropped on it; its clean.
Like hmmmm your house is still clean. IT does not become witch-palace just because some one did baby-making there.

If I expand more. When your little babies are sleeping next you while babyMakin...they don't
need shower in the morning.
Stuff like that.

great point Gaia!

:k: great point,

:hugz:

**U R MY HERO **

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seriously, if ppl would be mature about this kind of stuff then we could actually get some answers around here instead of ppl just typing out unrelated banter and tangents i’m not trying to start anything. if ANYTING, i think i asked a pretty valid question which other ppl might have been scared to ask. thats the point of a forum, where no one knows your identity, u can be yourself and ask questions which are important and relevant. some ppl have some major growing up to do. :pcg:

pyaare: thanks for the link. MUCH appreciated. :bulbuli:

wink

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erm, no i dont think you do. you have to be clean and your husband. thats it. however same goes for your monthly mentsrual cycle, if its get on the sheets you wash them right....???

oh yes, definetly you have to clean that. even if u dont HAVE to...i mean...why wouldnt u, u know? lol

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I didn’t read all the responses so if someone already said this, I apologize.

You could even be more discreet by just googling on your own without having to discuss your sexual life here. I mean first ‘Denying husband request’ thread now this.

Usually women don’t ask these kind of questions but yes it is a valid question and a perfect answer is already provided by ‘pyaare’ in the link Washing Bed Sheets After Intercourse - IslamonLine.net - Ask The Scholar and here is the text version of that link.

You don’t necessarily need to wash the duvet, bed sheets, and pillow cases following conjugal relations with your spouse unless, of course, you are certain that semen has fallen on them and you are using the same for Prayer, in which case you need to wash the same or at least the spot of semen that has come in contact with. Should it be dry, however, it can be scraped off, though washing it is preferred.

If, on the other hand, you don’t suspect that semen has fallen on the duvet or bed sheets, then you need not worry. For according to the principles of jurisprudence, we are to assume that things are pure unless proven otherwise.

Having said this, however, I must point out the following: It is generally assumed that the married couple engaging in sexual intercourse make use of some piece of cloth or tissues to wipe their genitals clean following the act. Otherwise, it is more than likely that semen drops may fall on the bed sheets, in which case one must wash them before using the same for Prayers.

Now after reading this, unless your bed becomes a gymnasium during s*x, you shouldn’t need to wash your sheets.

RC

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Anjana,

You asked whether bed sheets need to be washed after sex. Well, your question is answered very simply in this Islamic reference below. It basically says the same thing that Punching Monk said earlier. If you feel hesitant posting certain questions on GS, you can type in the topic in the Google Search box and type the word “islam” after it…and you will get several website links that address your topic. For now, see the reference below.

Washing Bed Sheets After Intercourse - IslamonLine.net - Ask The Scholar

thanks so much redvelvet. your always so helpful/kind and informative in your posts. i wish more ppl on GS would take after your example. :hugz:

**i hope more ppl start doing that **

Roflmao!

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anjana my piece of advice is make one or two bed sheets to have this thing..when u r going to...u can put that bed sheet and then take it off...it will save your other bedsheets...and no wahsing thing will irritate u oftenly...

i pesonally feel these kind a questions shouldnt asked here but we all dont know each other...we all are anonmyous ...alot of ppl here..some thinks different..some got much knowlege in diferent regards and thses topics do exist..and if u asked such question i dont c any harm so plz people dont make this thinga issue...and bring such questions and topic s to vulgarity and weirdness...