Matrimonial Websites

[X2]

Re: Matrimonial Websites

@Ma_Mooli

X2: you are right; many people find someone through friends/ family/ themselves, but i am specially talking about those girls/ guys who have waited for a decade now in finding a partner that way, but have simply not come across someone suitable.

The situation i see there are many girls approaching or well into their 30s, and still going through this demeaning rishta process.. with any joe blog; When if they could be a little proactive and use these websites; they could easily surf out their interests; in a discreet and respectable way, and themselves a lot of time and hassle. But they dont because its not a respectable way apparently! And you only get the riff raffs on there.. Which is simply not the case.

I agree its not the case that you only find riff raffs there. I was commenting that you are bound to run into, or attract regular peeps as well as riff raffs regardless of the medium.

on a related note, its not just the two extremes of some demeaning rishta process involving chai parades, and meeting someone through the sites, people who can meet people through websites can also meet people through community and social circle.

In the end there are a few basic components of how easy someone finds a match

1. requirements- what are your expectations
2. options- where do you live, how many people are there, how involved and connected you are in the community
3. self- who are you- how would you satisfy others requirements and expectations

people cant keep focusing on #2 only..people..guys and girls alike..need to think about #1 and #3 as well. otherwise no matter what medium they will have a tough time. when you mention guys and girls in 30s who have not yet found someone…I only ask people to think about why is it that their friends, neighbors, cousins, and even siblings found decent matches.