Re: Materal words of wisdom
C’mon - elders should be , you know , giving confidence to their young ones , when they commence such an important phase of their lives …
This Doli mein Jana - kafan mein wapas ana - yea doli mein jaNa or mar kar hi us ghar se wapas nikalNa is kind of a mild harassment in my dictionary .
Basically you are telling her ’ Oi you dont worth a piece of tension for us any more - we are done and dusted with you ’ ..
It is good to teach your kids the vitality of making compromises in a married life but you should also draw a line by telling them that on what cost it should be done and on what it shouldn’t ..
it is all about keeping the freaking balance - you dont cater their childish attitudes after the marriage but you also dont let them feel that they have no shoulders to cry on ..