Mass Weddings

A very interesting concept, I think the Jamaat islami encouraged it amongst it’s cadres.

http://peshawar1.com/htmls/rahimullah/rahim33.html

In a mass wedding in rural Mardan, 27 poor couples tied the knot…
Rahimullah Yusufzai

PESHAWAR: In a mass wedding in rural Mardan, 27 poor couples tied the knot in presence of a large number of curious onlookers who had never before seen such a spectacle in their area.

The fun-filled event took place in Ghundo Shamozai, sited in an under-developed area stricken by poverty and unemployment. The couples mostly belonged to Shamozai and the surrounding villages but two bridegrooms hailed from Buner district and one from Nowshera.

The Bay Bay Welfare Trust, founded by the Mardan-born philanthropist Ghulam Nabi Khan who is now a businessman in Belgium, paid for the marriages. Each bride received dowry, which included household items ranging from cooking utensils to clothes, pedestal fans, sewing machines and basic furniture, worth Rs 19,600. The bridegrooms got a pair of clothes, chappals and sweets.

Decorated cars rented by the trust later drove the brides to their new homes. Earlier, the male and female guests, seated in separate enclosures, were served food. Collective prayers were offered to seek happy wedlock for the couples. The night before, a concert was arranged to celebrate the weddings.

Music filled the air and fireworks illuminated the sky on that happy occasion. The more than 1,000 invitees, who included relations and friends of the couples as well as notables of the area, applauded when Ghulam Nabi garlanded the bridegrooms and gifted them Rs 1,000 each as “salami.” He later gave “salami” and a copy of the Holy Quran to the brides.

NWFP irrigation and religious affairs minister Hafiz Akhtar Ali, who is the MPA from the area and was chief guest at the mass wedding, also garlanded some of the bridegrooms. Beside him, others who spoke at the ceremony were Mardan district Nazim, Haji Raza Khan, DIG Police Mardan range Abdul Latif Gandapur, Naveed Khan, advocate, who runs the mass weddings programme on behalf of Bay Bay Welfare Trust, social worker Pir Abdul Nasir, and Zar Bahadur, president of the Zalanda Welfare Organization which organized the event. Journalist Haji Mohammad Gul Bangash conducted the ceremony while Pashto poets Akmal Lewanay, Mohammad Ayub Ayub, Muslim Khan, Aurangzeb Nasim, etc entertained the crowd with their poetry.

This was the third time that the Bay Bay Welfare Trust sponsored mass weddings of destitute girls in Mardan. Earlier, 20 marriages were solemnized in Gujjar Garhi village and another 19 in Mardan city. NWFP chief minister Akram Durrani was chief guest at the second event.

While praising the Bay Bay Welfare Trust for paying for the wedding of poor couples, minister Hafiz Akhtar Ali said the MMA government in the NWFP would encourage such NGOs that sincerely strived for the welfare of the people. However, he warned that NGOs that advanced the Western agenda and violated religious principles and cultural values would be taken to task. He alleged that certain NGOs were promoting mixing of the two sexes and misleading young girls.

Ghulam Nabi said he considered all the newly married couples as his own children. “I want them to feel that there are some people who care for them. The happiness and satisfaction that one draws from such occasions cannot be explained in words,” he remarked. Urging the well-to-do people to help the poor and the needy in their own communities, he said many problems could be solved through a collective effort. He said the dowry contained only essential items.

I think it will be better suited in Culture forum for discussion and comment. Unless you have anything specific you want to discuss religiously, please let me know.

Thanks

Moved from Religion to Culture.

very interesting read.

Very interesting concept. However I don't think it will become a widespread practice in Pakistan.

It can beome a well established or lets say widely practised occasion if we have the will and resources to back it. Such practices if encouraged can go a long way.

Zakk, the other day I read something on more or less the same lines in an urdu daily. Wonder whether you read it. Let me say, what we lack in our country is the culture of 'philanthrophy' Ammasing wealth and guarding the pennies is what most of us believe in. Majority of the people are oblivious to the fact that a little contribution from their side (financial/material) in the educational as well as the social sector can help so many downtrodden people and bright kids who have absolutely no resources to fulfill their needs.
Here is something I would like to translate from that article for our esteemed members.

It 's a pretty long article but I'll just mention a few things.

grassroot organization: sehat samaj sudhar
location: karachi/interior Sindh/mostly got`h as theyare called in Sindhi.
mass wedding so far: 7 such ceremonies, 100's of girls and guys have tied the knot since 1998 under the auspices of this organization.
dowry: more or less the same that has been mentioned in the above article.
resources: various philanthrophists from Karachi.
main idea: Pandhi Fakeerr from Konkar and former GS of All Pak Memon Fed. Dr. Javeri.

purpose: to discourage ppl from spending lavishly on weddings and dowry. MAny of the guys and girls have not been able to get married just cuz they donot have enough resources to celebrate for days on during and after their wedding. And also 'cuz most of them hardly get to eat twice a day , let alone pay for dowry.

next step: as soon as they are able to get more money they 'll start helping out the hindus of the region in this regard.

There is a sect of Sikhs called Naamdharis. They have been doing mass weddings of dozens of couples at one time for atleast a hundred years now. Since most brides used to cover their faces with ghunD(ghoonghat), there has been few cases where brides were switched during the wedding.
just be careful.:-)

Chann ji, kee faayada ay tuhada jay tussay aiho jay sect day baaray pailoN naee dassaya. Tuhaday laaRay tay munday rain kanwaaray!

^ Chanmahi, I thought abt it for a moment too.

However, I think if they wud have heard Abrar's song, " ghund wichoon ch`a kar lai :D " they would have been saved from this ordeal.

I kind of like this shared services model . I think this type of vertical integration will definitely help drive the unit costs down by one gulab jamun/guest.