Re: Maslaa
yeah after all she did to u & yr kids , u better annoy her in the worst possible way ??? wanna know how ?? ok pluck & shape yr eye brows ( which isn't a sin or gunahh btw) and show it to her , she would be pissed for sure........
i believe it's not good to hurt sentiments of yr own kids by letting other kids share or borrow their stuff , it's ok for sometime or for some of the stuff , but not for things which r dear / favorite to yr own kids , and others should respect that too.
Re: Maslaa
it is ok hareem api...you can give her the book.
ilm baatain...prolly you this deed gonna make your children more educated and successful (Ameen)
i believe it's not good to hurt sentiments of yr own kids by letting other kids share or borrow their stuff , it's ok for sometime or for some of the stuff , but not for things which r dear / favorite to yr own kids , and others should respect that too.
i know of one mother who whenever someone gave her kids gifts or toys or eidee or whatever, she would take it and give it to someone else. i know another aunty who did that with her kid's eidee
argh seriously sum desi ppl, actually its not even desi ppl, goray can b like this 2. I wud feel embarassed asking pp; i wasnt close 2 to borrow things like that, but i guess, if she's not that close and if she is a complete hypocrite just say that u need the books for now, and u cant let any2 borrow them, best to blunt saves u any further hassle especially with ppl like her!!!
What makes you think the friend is a desi?
Re: Maslaa
Who else would say that plucking eyebrows are haram. I have seen many desi who don't like to spend money, but like their kids to enjoy/have fun on cost of others. Here gora mothers get very angry at their kids if they play with other kid's toys, let even touch it.
Re: Maslaa
okay i don’t like complaining but i got to tell you this.
she saw my son’s head and said ’ haaww iss kay sar ka bera gharaq ker diya hai, iss ka sar kyon nahi bnaya '…
I said, ’ Allah nay bana kar bheja hai iss ka sar " (I thought abhi to changing of Allah’s creation per lecture de rahi thi).
She said " next baby ka sar zaroor bnana " then i told her that other children in schools who aren’t desi make fun of ’ sar walay ’ bachay and call them ’ flat headed ', after hearing this she never said anything about sar bnaaying again.
Re: Maslaa
Why are you still friends/in contact with her? tell her to go to hell
OMG! Listen to this. When my older daughter was a few months old, I was invited to someone’s pre-Hajj party, and some aunty whom I’d never met before told me that her head was ugly and that I should fill a bag with rice and have my kido sleep on it. Hai hai, iska sar toh bana hi nahi. Aaj kal ki maa toh in chizoN ki fikar hi nahi karti.
I used to live with my mother in law at the time and bless her soul, she never forced her viewpoints on me if she sensed a resistance on my part. So when I told her and my hubby about what tha aunty said, hubby asked me to tell her that auntyji, your head is still shaped badly so maybe you should try to sleep on a chawal ki bori instead!
i cant imagine you saying that to some aunty but i know TLK wouldnt have a problem saying it 
argh! the nerve of that aunty!
I heard it somewhere that books are only good when read and shared,they are not meant to be put on shelves.
Re: Maslaa
yeah i'm thinking of opening a public library in my house for desis, i can put some of my children's book on sale as well......buy one get one freee.
