Re: Marrying
Marriage is built on respect. It’s the foundation for a successful marriage. If you don’t respect the gentleman, the best course of action would be not to marry him as a marriage in which there is no respect does not have a good foundation.
That said, we don’t know what your reasons are for accepting the gentleman and what it is about him that has caused you not to respect him. I think it would be wise to think this through quite thorough and objectively before making any rash decisions.