Well well thats the first shock of this week.
I am really surprised comming that from you.
I really do not mean it sarcasticly but i really thought you are openminded, liberal, progessive and enlightened and would think out of the box. Yeah kia ho gya aap ko “bassanti”?
To elobrate more “gudia” i think it has more to do with you then the memon community. I have a friend who is from a cast that is not liked in Pakistan or not very popular but he is married to a memon girl in Holland. I know people who marry and mix even the first time because only thing that connects them is their religion or the same continent (Asia) where they come from.
I really think its indiviual additude and openness towards everything that is unknown. Even those who are in Europe or go to other countries for the first time they adop the culture of the society or community they live in. Its not easy not at all but if you are willing to think out of the box its not so difficult either.
Cheers!!