Hmmm, I'm confused. Why is this creating problems? I'm in a mixed marriage, so I think mixing is great. But I also don't think everyone needs to conduct their marriage search specifically including other ethnicities.
I get upset when people say "you need to stick with your own race" or when parents forbid their kids from marrying outside their caste, etc. But this is not PCG's situation. She is an open-minded girl but is finding that she gets along best with guys who share her background. So what's the big deal? The majority of people marry within their own background, it doesn't mean that they're against mixing. It just wasn't their personal choice.
Well of course everyone is entiteled to do or say or decide what they want THANK ALLAH for that i am not against that at all. Live and Let live but..................
i am also giving my opinion and i think that one should not decide with whom to live with rest of her/his life (i thought she was talking about marriage but i may be wrong) only because of the "cast" or "ethnicity". There is more to it in life then just that. I know same ethnicity can make life little easier but thats not all in life a person should look for. I can sum up quialities but you people are mature enough to understand what i mean.