Hmmm, I’m confused. Why is this creating problems? I’m in a mixed marriage, so I think mixing is great. But I also don’t think everyone needs to conduct their marriage search specifically including other ethnicities.
I get upset when people say “you need to stick with your own race” or when parents forbid their kids from marrying outside their caste, etc. But this is not PCG’s situation. She is an open-minded girl but is finding that she gets along best with guys who share her background. So what’s the big deal? The majority of people marry within their own background, it doesn’t mean that they’re against mixing. It just wasn’t their personal choice.