It's a nightmare to marry someone you don't even know! How do you get away with "first" night?
I could never sleep with someone I'd just met a few hours before and prob not even spoken to properly, actually even spending the night with a 'stranger' in his house with all his family would be too weird for me. I mean the whole coming out of his room the next morning and people wondering if we had done 'it' would make me cringe...