Re: Marrying someone out of ur “league”..
Grow up and snap out of it. You don’t “HAVE” to marry this guy if you are so averse to him.
If you can’t muster up enough courage to stand your ground in spite of family opposition…then people can question your mental maturity as well. You didn’t have to waste your time and this guy’s time by being engaged to him for so long. Had you stuck to your guns with consistency from the get-go…there may not have been a ring or impending wedding plans to contend with.
Analyzing compatibility on the threads isn’t going to get you out of this mess. That would require action…and being proactive on your part.
As for mental maturity…it’s not always in a constant state. You can learn from others as people have different perspectrives on things.